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Rebecca Woolf — All of This (Book Review)

by Barbara the Bibliophage | Aug 8, 2022 | RELAX: Memoir | 2 comments

Rebecca Woolf - All of This

Rebecca Woolf creates a complex yet vulnerable tale in All of This: A Memoir of Death and Desire . How do these two topics intertwine, you ask? And Woolf answers this question in spades. Her marriage was far from perfect, but they stayed together. Then doctors diagnose her husband with stage four terminal cancer. What follows is as much about the death as how Woolf reconciles her conflicting emotions.

The diagnosis happens just as Woolf considers whether to leave this man—the father of her four children. Instead, she stays and cares for him, putting his intense needs ahead of hers. She attends to the kids physically and emotionally but lets her basic needs slide.

Once her husband dies, Woolf’s pendulum swings to a more balanced place. She and the kids find unique ways to cope. They sing and dance when it helps let their emotions flow. And Woolf figures out how to be a single mom in the world of Tinder. Dates—many of them—become her coping mechanism. She gets back in touch with her womanhood and desire for intimacy and connection, even if just for brief relationships.

My conclusions

Woolf is comfortable oversharing. But it’s endearing and illustrates the genuine complexity of unexpected death after a less-than-ideal relationship. She offers a precious and tender mothering style that’s never saccharin. All of This is a modern take on being a young widow with young kids.

When I started reading, Woolf immediately drew me into her world. I felt the chill of the hospital ward. The vital support of her besties. And each of her acute feelings about events she had little control over. However, this book isn’t a tearjerker. Ultimately, it’s about empowerment and Woolf’s journey to regain her sense of self.

Based on Woolf’s telling, I neither mourned her husband’s death nor the end of their marriage. Instead, I felt hurt for how he forced her into his vision of a wife and caregiver. The book is clearly her way of cleansing the demons of imbalanced marital power. This isn’t the typical way an abusive relationship ends, which makes this memoir compelling.

I recommend this if you love woman-centered memoirs that dive deep into emotions and aren’t afraid to test boundaries of “correctness.”

Pair with Rachel Krantz’s Open: An Uncensored Memoir of Love, Liberation, and Non-Monogamy for the shared frank discussion of open relationships. Or try another memoir about the journey of widowhood, like Elizabeth Alexander’s The Light of the World .

Acknowledgments

Thanks to NetGalley, Harper One, and the author for a digital advanced reader’s copy in exchange for this honest review. The expected publication date for this book is August 16, 2022.

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“The” Jay Geary

Excellent review, Barbara. I am both a cancer survivor and a divorce survivor. Despite my gender and other differences with the author, it sounds like a compelling memoir that is worth reading, regardless

Barbara the Bibliophage

Hi Jay! Thanks for commenting and reading this review. Given your approach to reading, I suspect you’ll appreciate this memoir!

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When reading a memoir, there’s always the implicit sense that by the end of the book, the author will have achieved some sort of clarity. That, whatever the crux of their personal journey has been, the book is going to end with some sort of catharsis, one that they now feel compelled to share with readers.

Speaking with Rebecca Woolf about her candid tell-all, “ All of This: A Memoir of Death and Desire ,” one gets the sense that whatever readers take away from the book, a sense of tranquility and peace won’t be that feeling. In fact, those feelings still elude the author herself.

“The majority of the survivor’s guilt I have, which is very common for anyone who loses a partner, is that he didn’t get to have a life after our marriage and I do,” says Woolf from her home in Los Angeles. “I have this life that I really love now and I’m happier than I’ve ever been, and I wish he had been able to explore what was on the other side of our marriage as well.”

The “him” in question is Hal Isaacson, Woolf’s late husband who, after nearly 20 years together, passed away in 2018 of stage four pancreatic cancer. He was able to live for only four months after receiving his diagnosis and left behind a 37-year-old widow and the couple’s four children. Woolf recounts all of this in “All of This,” but it’s important to point out that this isn’t the typical book about grief and widowhood. While the title of the book comes from Hal’s request that his wife write about “all of this” (that is, his sickness and death), she admits it’s unlikely that the finished product was what he had in mind. Rather, it’s an unfiltered, unadulterated, uncouth, and often hilarious look at a marriage that was falling apart, but was then upended by illness and death.

“I don’t think this is the book he thought I was going to write, because from the very beginning of our marriage, I was writing about our life,” says Woolf, who has been working as a writer for various publications and blogs for over 20 years. “But I was doing so in a way that was protective of him, our kids, and everybody. I was prioritizing everyone’s feelings over my own. Writing truthfully but in a way that was safe.”

She goes on to say that, at some point when she was writing the initial notes for “All of This,” she realized she needed to try a different approach.

“I sat down to write that book and just realized I couldn’t. I didn’t. It wasn’t working,” says Woolf, who grew up in Encinitas. “The experience of navigating his death, there was already so much that I had to do while he was dying that felt performative, but I did it for everybody’s sake and for my sake as well. I had to go back inside myself and find this love for him that I didn’t feel anymore. I have to find a way to navigate this death and honor him as best I can when the last thing I wanted to do was honor him.”

“There was so much anger between us when he got diagnosed, and we were about to split up,” Woolf continues. “We were looking for separate houses. So there was a lot that I had to suppress while he was dying and the months after just so everyone else felt safe and OK with it. And I eventually got to a point where I felt like my head was going to pop off my body if I didn’t tell everyone how I feel.”

And Woolf does tell readers how she feels with an aplomb rarely executed so well in a memoir revolving around death and grief. With “All of This,” Woolf joins the recent ranks of writers who are telling harsh truths in hopes of conveying a unique sense of fellowship (Keri Blakinger’s “Corrections in Ink,” Isaac Fitzgerald’s “Dirtbag, Massachusetts,” and, most correspondingly, Jennette McCurdy’s “I’m Glad My Mom Died,” to name a few). One of the many distinctions in “All of This,” however, is Woolf’s ability to spin a page-turning confessional while interweaving remembrances from her entire life, and her own issues with sex, pleasure and fidelity.

“I don’t feel ashamed of being a human, and I don’t feel ashamed about having human experiences and feelings,” Woolf says. “I think a lot of the reason why people feel they can’t speak honestly is that there’s shame there, whether it’s personal shame or societal expectations. I think that we keep ourselves from our truth out of shame and guilt, and I don’t feel that way.”

Before telling her truth in “All of This,” Woolf made a career from, as she puts it, “writing about my life, my whole life.” She began writing personal essays about her life as early as her teens while attending La Costa Canyon High School and, after moving to L.A. in 1999 and marrying Hal in her early 20s, she made a career writing for publications like the Huffington Post, Parenting and her own blog, Girl’s Gone Child.

“I think with a lot of memoirs, there’s this question of what came first: the story or the storyteller,” Woolf asks. “I think a lot of memoirs come from the story rather than the storyteller, and for me, it was the reverse. I was always going to write this book, because I’ve been writing it my whole life.”

Still, she says she was surprised to learn that there weren’t many books like the one she wanted to write. She recalls going to widow support groups shortly after Hal died and feeling indifferent to the type of counsel that was offered.

“I was being given all these grief books and not a single one was relatable to me,” says Woolf. “What was relatable to me were books and stories from divorced women who were writing about getting out of their marriages. Those were the women I was identifying with, and I realized my experience was very similar to that of a divorced person who is out of a marriage and is free, but of course you can’t say that when someone dies.”

As much as Woolf says she felt a sense of “relief” when her husband died, there are still heartbreaking recountings of love and tenderness in “All of This.” It will be difficult for any reader not to openly weep at Woolf’s recollection of Hal telling their children that he only had a short amount of time before he would die.

“He was glowing. The most beautiful man I had ever seen. Father of my children, love of my life. The crack in his exterior had found its way to mine,” she writes in the book. “It is possible to hate a person with your entire body and also love him with the whole of your heart.”

And yet, the book never feels overly sentimental or nostalgic, and it’s a credit to Woolf’s skill as a writer that her particularly heartbreaking passages are quickly supplemented with funny memories, such as when she plays a rather ridiculous song (The Misfits’ punk classic, “Die, Die My Darling”) while Hal is literally on his deathbed.

“Someone I know read it recently and they told me they weren’t expecting me to be tender toward Hal,” Woolf says. “People are so binary when it comes to this. That if you’re writing a book about how you have a really tough marriage, that I was going to villainize him through the whole book. There are so many things to him and so many different versions of him, just as there are many versions of me.”

In addition to writing a new bi-weekly column on dating ( “Sex & The Single Mom” ), Woolf is already planning a follow-up to “All of This.” For now, however, she says she’s content in that she’s told an honest story of love, loss and freedom, one that she hopes inspires others to live in their own truths. What’s more, she wants them to know that those truths can be both painful and celebratory.

“I think that I’m very similar to a lot of people in that my feelings about this, his death and my marriage,” Woolf says. “These things are very universal and just because we don’t talk about them doesn’t mean they aren’t happening. The more of us who are willing to talk about it, the more we can normalize a more human, more nuanced experience when it comes to death, love, marriage and all these things that we filter out.”

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ALL OF THIS

A memoir of death and desire.

by Rebecca Woolf ‧ RELEASE DATE: Aug. 16, 2022

A provocative and memorable work of autobiography.

A successful writer and blogger explores how her husband’s untimely death forced a confrontation with her unfulfilling marriage and undefined sexuality.

By the time Woolf’s husband, Hal, was diagnosed with terminal cancer, their marriage was “in relative shambles—backs turned to each other in a bed big enough to keep us from touching.” Hal resented Woolf for her financial success, and Woolf resented Hal for the lies she felt compelled to tell him to keep the marriage “stable.” However, his illness made the author desperate. Rather than seeking a divorce, she found herself wanting Hal to live. For the remainder of his life, the author swore she would never leave his side, “the only marital vow I didn’t break.” The tumultuous mixture of love and hate complicated a difficult grieving process that began even before he died. As she revisited their shared past, she mourned her “inadequacies as a wife, as a partner” while also excoriating herself for passively accepting what she knew was a “toxic relationship.” After Hal’s death, Woolf found herself “performing” widowhood for others while gnawing on a powerful desire to “get fucked”—less to satiate her desire and more to fill the emptiness that had carried over from her marriage. An affair with a friend she’d met at Hal’s funeral provided some release. Then she signed up for Tinder and fell into a pattern of “one-night standing,” which eventually included both male and female partners as well as experiments in polyamory. In the process, Woolf learned that however traumatic, Hal’s death had actually prepared her for the short-term relationships she realized were what made her feel the most free and alive. By turns disturbing and profound, this intimate book about one woman’s path to personal liberation also reveals the sometimes-labyrinthine nature of the bonds that unite people in love and marriage.

Pub Date: Aug. 16, 2022

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In the first episode of Under the Bridge , Hulu ’s relentlessly grim new true-crime drama, writer Rebecca Godfrey ( Riley Keough ) comes home to Victoria, British Columbia for the first time in 10 years. She’s flown in from New York to research her next book, about the “misunderstood girls” of her gorgeous but gloomy coastal town. Growing up, Rebecca was one of them — a rebellious kid who hid pot under the floorboards in her bedroom and partied with friends at an abandoned warehouse. She never really wanted to come back to Victoria, but the muse of her past misery beckons.

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Police officers in Atlanta detained demonstrators today on the usually serene campus of Emory University , where pro-Palestinian protesters had erected tents. It was the latest in a series of clashes in a protest movement that has spread across American campuses.

Across the country, more than 400 participants have been taken into police custody over the last week, including protesters at Columbia University and Emerson College in Boston.

In related news, the University of Southern California canceled its graduation ceremony after protests disrupted its campus.

New U.S. rules could spell the end for coal power plants

The Biden administration today released a regulation that requires coal plants in the U.S. to reduce their emissions by 90 percent over the next 15 years. The rule is one of four new restrictions that could deliver a death blow to the country’s coal industry .

Republican-led states and the coal industry are all but certain to challenge the rules in court, and Trump has promised that, if elected, he would roll back Biden’s climate regulations.

More top news

Economy: G.D.P. grew at a 1.6 percent annual rate in the first quarter, down from 3.4 percent at the end of 2023, although consumers continued to spend.

Business: Google’s parent company reported a 15 percent jump in quarterly revenue .

Africa: The Pentagon is withdrawing dozens of troops from Chad, another blow to the U.S. security and counterterrorism policy in the volatile Sahel region.

Middle East: President Biden and the leaders of 17 other nations called on Hamas to release all of the hostages it holds .

White House: A Secret Service agent was removed from Vice President Kamala Harris’s detail after displaying “distressing” behavior .

Internet: The F.C.C. voted to restore net neutrality rules that declare broadband a utility-like service, to be regulated like phones and water.

Sports: The World Anti-Doping Agency appointed a special prosecutor to review the handling of positive tests collected from 23 Chinese swimmers.

Haiti: Prime Minister Ariel Henry signed his resignation letter, allowing a transitional council to take power .

Italy: Venice is trying to mitigate overtourism by charging a fee of five euros to visit its fragile historic center on busy days.

France: The blades came off the windmill at the Moulin Rouge in Paris. But the show will go on: The cabaret is still open.

TIME TO UNWIND

‘challengers’ tests zendaya’s star power.

Zendaya has been quite famous for a while, first as a teen on the Disney Channel and later as a star of an Emmy-winning show (“Euphoria”) and in big movies (“Spider-Man” and “Dune”). But “Challengers,” a Luca Guadagnino film about a love triangle between three tennis stars that arrives in theaters tomorrow, will test Zendaya’s box-office draw as a solo star .

In a review , our critic called it “a fizzy, lightly sexy, enjoyable tease of a movie.” The costumes, a rare collaboration with a major fashion designer, caught my colleagues’ attention .

The Chicago Bears are on the clock

The N.F.L. draft begins tonight, and much of the intrigue surrounds this year’s crop of quarterbacks. The Chicago Bears are widely expected to select U.S.C.’s Caleb Williams with the No. 1 pick, and it’s quite possible that second and third choices will be quarterbacks as well. Here’s what to expect , and who your team might be drafting .

One thing to watch: There’s a good chance teams will set a record this year for the most draft picks traded .

Dinner table topics

She vanished from Hollywood: “The Shining” star Shelley Duvall is back acting after two decades away. We talked to her about what happened .

Decks with a motive: Prisons in Mississippi are handing out playing cards featuring unsolved murders on their faces .

Dainty eating: Unlike most online food reviewers, Keith Lee avoids the mess. It’s a crucial part of his charm .

Is New York still funny?: Our comedy critic went on a one-week improv binge to find out .

WHAT TO DO TONIGHT

Cook: These sheet-pan quesadillas are quick and satisfying.

Read: Our crime columnist recommends four mystery novels .

Listen: These are five great classical music albums to listen to right now.

Plan: Here’s what to know before booking a trip to a national park .

Watch: Check out an indoor soccer match, where the game is at its best .

Be aware: The U.S. is flooded with fake Botox. Here’s what to look for .

Hunt: Which Atlanta-area house would you buy with a $450,000 budget ?

Play: Here are today’s Spelling Bee , Wordle and Mini Crossword . Find all of our games here .

ONE LAST THING

Some adults love stuffed animals, too.

Hollis Tuttle was given a stuffed bear puppet for her seventh birthday. She named it Ogen and kept it by her side until a week before her wedding at age 33, when she brought it to her parents’ house because her fiancé didn’t want to share a bed with the puppet. That was 14 years ago; she has since gotten a divorce and found new stuffed animals to fall asleep with.

We talked to several adults who continue to enjoy the companionship of a stuffed animal, as well as psychologists who said that the comfort offered by such an item doesn’t necessarily need to end at a certain age .

Have a cuddly evening.

Thanks for reading. I’ll be back tomorrow. — Matthew

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