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How to Write a Biography for a Funeral Program + Examples

Updated 05/11/2022

Published 03/10/2021

Belinda McLeod, BA in Secondary Education

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After a person dies, someone in the family usually writes a biography or obituary about the person. This task sometimes falls to a friend or the funeral director may also help with the writing process. 

You may then submit the biography or obituary to the newspaper through the funeral home. Most newspapers charge families a per-word rate to print the article. You may also write the obituary for the funeral program on the funeral home’s website.

Check out our tips for writing a biography for a funeral. We will also give you short biography examples to help you with your task of telling your loved one’s life story. 

Jump ahead to these sections:

Steps for writing a biography for a funeral, funeral biography samples.

Think of a biography (or obituary) as a news article informing the general public about a death that occurred. Even though you may feel emotional when writing an obituary, this is not typically the outlet for writing about your feelings. 

Even though the biography is an informative article, it is up to you to include the details. You can include pretty much whatever you want, but it’s a good idea to get the family’s general consensus regarding what you will write about in the biography.

The number and types of details may vary, depending on the person and where the biography or obituary will be used. A biography (or obituary) read at a funeral may include more details than one printed in the newspaper or funeral program . 

Step 1: Start with the general facts

You want to identify the deceased first. Use the full name (with the maiden name in parentheses) and the age of the person. If the deceased had an often-used nickname, consider putting it in quotes. 

The more identification factors you use makes it less likely that your loved one gets mistaken for someone else. This is especially important if your loved one had a common name. 

Step 2: Consider including the essential dates in the obituary

Some families choose to include the birth date and death date of the deceased in the obituary. You can present this information in a variety of ways. 

Others avoid giving this detailed information in hopes of limiting the likelihood of fraudulent activity. You may provide partial information, such as “She was born to Bob and Mary Smith in October 1982.”

Step 3: Consider including the cause of death

The family must decide whether or not to include the cause of death. Most people who read the biography will wonder, “What happened?” This question may seem nosy to you, but it is only human nature to be curious about such matters. 

Some families choose to leave this information out of the biography, which is their prerogative. Others may view it as a piece of information that may be helpful to future generations. Some may give partial information, such as “Mary Frankie Jones, 65, passed away after a long illness.”

Step 4: Include information about the early life of the deceased

Most people choose to include the names of the parents of the deceased as well as the city of birth. Again, only include specific information if you feel comfortable; some unscrupulous individuals use this biographical information for nefarious purposes.

You may consider including where the deceased graduated high school and/or college. Include any brief military service during this section of the biography as well.

Step 5: Include other family information

Often, you list a deceased person’s marriages in the article chronologically and list children at the end of the article as “survivors to the deceased.”

For some, it’s easy to write about the deceased’s spouse but makes a difficult task for others. Again, there are no “rules” on who to include, so you and your family must make those determinations.

People agonize over whether to include estranged family members. You may also wonder whether to label stepchildren differently than biological children. Ex-spouses and long-term partners that never marry may pause you as you write the obituary. 

Each situation is different, so most etiquette guides recommend that people do their best to keep their relationships with their living family members intact by not limiting the list of survivors in the obituary. 

Step 6: Write about your loved one’s professional life

A funeral biography is not the same as a resume, but most people give at least some general information about how the deceased earned a living. 

If the deceased worked his entire adult life at one place of business, you would include this detail in the obituary. If he job-hopped but stayed in the same industry, you may include a sentence about his profession.

You may make this section of the biography longer for those with active careers. 

Step 7: Consider including information about community involvement

Many families choose to include their loved one’s involvement in community groups. For example, you may choose to include the deceased’s involvement in a specific church, civic organization, or volunteer group. You may also want to include any offices that the deceased held in any of these organizations as well as any awards earned. 

Step 8: Add any details that made your loved one special

There’s much more to life than work and club memberships. Think about other details you could include in the biography that would help people understand what made your loved one unique. 

Perhaps you want to write about how she was a Star Wars superfan and waited in line each time a new film was released. Maybe your loved one was an avid camper and fisherman and spent each weekend in a tent. 

You may want to write a lengthy exposition about what made your loved one special, which you should do. Use this information to write your loved one’s eulogy or share your writing with close family members. Depending on where you publish it, you may find your writing limited by the amount of space available. 

To get you started in your writing process, read these short, fictional obituary snippets. 

For a parent or grandparent

Douglas Richard Schrute, 82, passed away peacefully in his home on Monday, June 23, 2020. His wife of 53 years was by his side at the time of death.

Douglas was born on December 22, 1938, to Richard and Mary (Sullivan) Schrute in Elmwood, Illinois. He was the fourth son born to the couple. 

After graduating from Elmwood High School, he joined the U.S. Army, serving his country in Korea.

For a child or grandchild

Mary Kate is survived by her parents, Michael and Patricia Carmichael, and one brother, Cole. Other survivors include her maternal grandparents, John and Tawnya Crabtree, and her paternal grandparents, Frank and Louise Carmichael. 

For a partner or spouse

Peter worked in the telecommunications industry all his life. He began his career at Southwestern Bell in 1973 and retired from AT&T in 2018. He worked as a technical salesperson for most of his professional life. 

For an adult without immediate family

Michael will always be remembered by his friends as the “man of 1,000 stories.” He began each conversation by saying, “Stop me if you’ve heard this before,” which no one ever did. He was the life of the party, and laughter followed him wherever he went. 

For someone who died after a long illness

Jack passed away Friday, December 8, after a long battle with lung cancer. 

The family wishes to express appreciation to the Elmwood Hospice organization for helping make his transition to heaven as peaceful as possible.

Take Great Care When Writing the Biography of a Loved One

If you are in charge of making all of the arrangements, you may find yourself overwhelmed by your list of “to-do” items. 

Even though you may find yourself pressed for time, carefully consider the wording of your loved one’s biography or obituary. Take care to be as accurate as possible by double-checking dates, the spelling of names, and other facts. 

Anytime you write something of this level of importance, it is good to have other family members and friends check the piece for accuracy, clarity, and grammar. Have others proofread the funeral program as well and help you pick which modern funeral program to include. 

You only have one chance to write the obituary of your loved one, so take your time as you complete this task. 

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Summarizing a loved one’s life can feel like an impossible task, especially when you’re grieving. It’s even more challenging when you’re not used to writing meaningful stories every day. And that’s what an obituary really is—a true story about someone who mattered to you.

Because you’re here, you’ve probably been given the responsibility of putting the obituary together on top of experiencing the mourning process yourself. Our hearts go out to you. But writing a meaningful obituary can also feel very cathartic: Think of it as a way to revisit good memories, share old stories and find some comfort.

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We have some ideas on how to represent your family member or friend in a way that feels genuine. We hope this can help and guide you as you begin to tell their story.

• How to Announce a Death on Social Media
• What to Write in an Obituary
• How to Write an Obituary with Personality

How to Announce a Death on Social Media  

The first way many people widely share news about a loved one’s death is on social media or a blog (either personal or a site like CaringBridge).  

A death announcement on social media can be short and simple, with a note that more information—like service details and a full obituary—is to come. This initial message is just about getting the word out.

Essentials to include in a social media death announcement:

• Who the person was to you (parent, sibling, grandparent, friend, etc.).
• That they’ve passed away. (How much detail you include is entirely up to you.)
• Positive attributes, a few heartfelt words or how you’re feeling.  
• Optional: A photo and any important details or links you want to share, like an obituary or blog post with more information, such as CaringBridge.

Examples of what to write in a social media death announcement:

• Dearest friends and family, we are deeply saddened to announce that our adored dad, Sonny Silvercreek, passed away Friday night, leaving behind many memories with those he loved.
• Sad news: My sister left this earth late last evening. She was never a morning person, so true to her night-owl self, she flew off in the wee hours to her next adventure. For those who didn’t know, Rosemary was living with a kidney condition that caused her to say goodbye way too soon. (Read Rosemary’s story on her CaringBridge page.) Thank you for your support.
• To my family and friends: It is with a very heavy heart that I share that our Jaime left this life yesterday afternoon. They struggled fitting into this world, but it never took away from the world of blessings they gave to us. Jaime, we love you and hope you have finally found everlasting peace and joy.  

What to Write in an Obituary  

An obituary can be traditional and straightforward or expressive and full of personality—or anywhere in between. Below, we’ll cover the expected parts of an obituary and provide examples of writing for you to personalize or use as thought-starters.  

Start with the facts

Obituaries typically begin with information about who someone was and the announcement that they’ve died. These are the most common:    

• Name: Preferably their full name, plus any nicknames, maiden names or changed names. Allow for prefixes and suffixes, like Dr., Sir, Rev., Jr., etc. Use proper pronouns, and if there’s any question, ask family for clarification.
• Age: This can be done by simply stating it, noting their birth and death dates or doing both.
• Who they were: This can include a range of roles, both personal and professional. Examples: Father, mom, teacher, skydiver, chef, friend, baby sister, peacemaker, party planner, etc.  
• Date they died: This is optional and can be omitted if there are concerns about publishing too much info.
• Where they lived and died: You can include the city or cities they were born and lived in, and mention details such as that they died “peacefully, surrounded by family and friends” or “at St. Luke’s hospice care community.”
• How they died: This is also optional and entirely based on your preferences. People will be curious, but that doesn’t mean it’s their right to know.  

A simple introduction that incorporates these facts can be personal and make a powerful statement about someone’s life. For example:

• Gene Romano III, age 87, of Tybee Island, Georgia, passed away on March 3, 2022, from complications during surgery. Born on February 10, 1935, Gene was blessed to have many roles as a husband, father, grandfather, brother, son and friend.
• Feisty right up to the end, Chris Young gave cancer a fight like it’s never seen. She was a young 46, but an old soul who made every day count.
• Daughter, sister, fur mama and friend, Elaine Ceballos, left this world loved on June 5, 2022.

Family and loved ones

Including the people your loved one loved is another way to honor their life and to acknowledge those who are grieving.  

Start with those who preceded them in death. If you’re wondering how far back to go, first think about immediate family—like a child, mom, stepmom, dad, stepdad, grandparent, sibling, spouse or fiance. Your loved one might also have lost a companion or life partner decades ago, a best friend that they talked to every day or even a significant pet that would be respectful to mention.  

Then list surviving family members—including chosen family.Choose a family member or a few to work with on the list. Do your best to come to an agreement that works for everyone. Most of the time, it’s better to over-include than under-include.  

• Current spouse, children and stepchildren (along with children’s spouses or partners), parents, stepparents, siblings, grandparents, grandchildren, nieces and nephews, etc.
• First husband or wife, if there are children involved or if there was still a friendship or some other unique circumstance.
• Partners in life, whether officially married or not.
• Anyone not in the “traditional” list but who was very important to the deceased. Chosen family might include best friends, favorite uncles or aunts, a beloved mentor, a supportive group of buddies, beloved pets, etc.
• Current pets: You’ll know when this is appropriate—we all can picture the people whose pets are their world, so don’t be shy about including them.

Here are some examples of how to list family members in an obituary:

• Allie is preceded in death by her brother-in-law, Mack Ross. She is survived by her daughter, Liza Stapinski; Liza’s dad, Joe Stapinski; sisters, Laura Lynn Schroeder Ross and Jacquelyn Schroeder McKinley (Ryan); father, Dr. Aaron Schroeder; mother, Simone Mercier; stepmom, Logan Schroeder; and many beloved family and friends.
• Sophie is preceded in death by her mom, Adelaide Davis, and her precious schnauzer, Turbo. She is survived by a long list of people who loved her, including, but not limited to: dad, Hugh Cohen of Lawrence; siblings, Will Cohen (Luna) of Shreveport, Collin Cohen (Bridget) of Savannah, Charlie Cohen (Vivian) of Jackson, Aubrey Cohen of Houston; stepdad, Guy Smith of Fayetteville; bestie, Jenn MacLewen of Atlantic City; and her boisterous book club sisters of Springfield.
• Jack is preceded in death by his grandma, Harriet Irwin. He is survived by his father, Rowan Bleu; mother, Ann Bleu; brothers, Ken Bleu (Tracy) and Danny Bleu (Jo); bonus child, Tyrell Waters; and wild child collie, Mischief.

Life and accomplishments

It’s hard to know where to start, so start with what you know. Think of how they would have wanted to be remembered and let that spark some ideas.   

Make a list of the most important things.Share the gems, the rare and wonderful things they did, what made people love them and how they loved others. Here are some questions to get you started:

• Where did their life begin…and where did it take them?
• What were their family and important relationships like, and how did they grow or change over time?
• What was school like? Were they a high school rebel, did they have multiple degrees or were they self-taught?  
• What did they do to make a living? What impact did it have on them—or how did they impact their workplace or community?   
• What were they known for among their friends and family? Interesting hobbies? Volunteering? Memorable stories, sayings or habits?
• What did they believe in? What mattered the most to them?

Here are some examples of what to write about someone’s life in an obituary:

• Mrs. DuBose was a dedicated sports fan—she cheered on countless games featuring her children and grandchildren, as well as every Kansas City sports team. She loved to bake and would not have dreamed of showing up to a family event or tailgate without her legendary caramel cake. She was a member of First Baptist Church, where she enjoyed singing hymns with the senior choir and attending Sunday school.
• Arthur grew up in Indianapolis, attended Westport High School, then joined the Marines once he graduated. After serving several tours of duty, he pursued his passion of making the most beautiful bamboo furniture. Some of his designs were even featured on celebrity social media accounts. Arthur played soccer his whole life, loved the outdoors and hated dressing up. More than anything, he adored his family. And they adored him.
• Nobody was more into fashion than Annabelle. A style maven through and through, our girl never looked bad and always made everyone else feel good. Her beauty was more than skin deep, though. After graduating from the University of Mississippi with a degree in Mass Communications, Annabelle started a nonprofit that supported young business entrepreneurs. When she wasn’t changing the world, Annabelle spent time painting in watercolor and loving on her cute kitten, Howard.

Share details of the service and special requests

It’s important to share details as soon as you can so friends and family can make plans to attend or memorialize the deceased.  

Include information about the visitation, funeral services, burial and/or the celebration of life—which might happen a few months down the road depending on schedules. If your plans aren’t yet finalized, reassure people that you’ll share info as soon as possible. Once you have it, be sure to include:

• Type of event: Visitation, wake, funeral, private burial, celebration of life, shiva, etc.
• Location: Include the name of the place, plus any directions or maps.
• Date and time: If mourners are coming from other parts of the country, verify the time zone so no one’s confused.

You can also share special requests or ways the family would like loved ones to remember the deceased:  

• “Flowers not required but always appreciated,” or “No flowers, please” or “In lieu of flowers, please…”  
• Donations to specific foundations or philanthropies.
• Kind gestures.
• What to bring or share, including photos, memories and food.

Visitation will be Thursday, December 1, from 5–9 p.m. and Friday, December 2, from 4–6 p.m. at the Christ Church Community Center. Funeral services will be held Saturday, December 3, at 11 a.m. at Christ Church in the main chapel. Burial immediately following. Lunch will be provided in the church Fellowship Hall for those who’d like to gather and share favorite stories. In lieu of flowers, please donate to Rae’s favorite environmental organization: [insert donation website and/or mailing address here].

How to Write an Obituary with Personality  

There are many ways to personalize an obituary, but there are a few easy ways to capture who your loved one really was and how they lived.

Deliver the details

By including personal details, you make your loved one’s story come alive. Think about:  

• What they were known for. Maybe your loved one performed acts of kindness you want to share. Or believed in angels. Or were steadfastly optimistic about their favorite team’s chances.
• Being precise. Why write someone “loved to cook” when you can write about that one favorite dish they made only for the most special occasions? Look for information you can change from vague to specific.
• Getting descriptive. For example, turn “enjoyed” into “displayed an encyclopedic knowledge of” or “giggled excitedly over.”  

Write in a real voice

Voice captures someone’s point of view, the words they choose and the emotions and rhythms in their speech. For an obituary, you can use your unique voice—or borrow your loved one’s style. Here are some tips:

• Make it conversational. Pretend you’re telling your loved one’s story to a friend. Use real language and turns of phrase.  
• Write it out in the present tense. After it sounds like you want it to, switch to past tense.
• Include dialogue. This could mean adding a quote your loved one once said, borrowing their own language quirks or including part of a conversation you had.

Here are some examples of obituary writing that use details and voice to capture unique personalities:   

• His perfect day was a horse ride down the Sapphire Trail, followed by a neat whiskey—plenty of ice—on the porch, with Sinatra playing in the background.
• They were a peacemaker, through and through. Except if you ordered pineapple on pizza. Then, Lord have mercy on your soul.
• Kit’s dream was to be a professional figure skater when she grew up. Even though she didn’t get to do that here, we think our little girl is twirling her toes off in Heaven.

Go completely off script

This is permission—just in case you need it—to trust yourself and your own language style when writing an obituary. Here are a few examples of nontraditional obituaries:  

• No one knew more about Jane Austen than Edith did. Except for maybe Jane Austen. She visited the famous novelist’s homeplace twice and read all of her books way more than twice! In Edith’s memory, we’d love to have a proper British tea. Please bring a Jane Austen quote to share. For now, we’ll leave you with this one: “It is such happiness when good people get together.”
• Colette Park was a delightful girl, dancer, dreamer, artist, discoverer of “animal clouds,” ice cream aficionado and best friend to her fur sibling, Rufus. Colette will be remembered for all the things she was…and mourned for the things she could’ve been. We won’t focus on the end of her life, but instead on the beautiful eight years we were blessed to have her. To honor our sweet girl’s memory, you can donate to [insert philanthropy] in her name.
• Brian’s memory was so amazing that even elephants were jealous. He remembered the most random stories and names we couldn’t recall and never forgot a face. This is one of many reasons, Brian, that we’ll always remember you.

Paying formal tribute to someone’s life is a big responsibility. But what really matters is that you give it your best, with empathy and respect for your family and the person you’ve lost. Your loved one was special and your writing will be, too, when you do it with love.

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How to write an obituary.

Writing an obituary is an act of love that can accomplish many things. At its core, an obituary is a declaration of loss, an acknowledgement of grief, and an expression of joy all-in-one. It celebrates the life of a loved one in a way that few other ways can.

Beyond what an obituary can accomplish emotionally, an obituary also has logistic importance, as it acts as an official notice of death that lets the community know of a loss. Historically, this communication of a death would happen via newspaper, where a family member would pay a newspaper several hundred dollars to publish an obituary and obituaries would be listed on an obituary section of the paper. However, on Ever Loved , you can write and publish an obituary online when you create a free online memorial website for a loved one. In addition to acting as a death announcement, an obituary can also be used to communicate service, burial, and memorial information and prescribe ways to donate to a cause, send flowers, volunteer, and help the bereaved.

An obituary is also a final tribute to a life well-lived, as it briefly recounts a loved one’s life as a short biography. It can be used to portray the arch of a loved ones life – from birth, through life, and arriving at death – and provide a symbolic closure to a person’s story.

Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to write an obituary. We've also written a few obituary templates for you in case you need to write your own. We hope this obituary writing help can provide you with the tools you need to honor a loved one while also following traditional practices.

1. Announce the death

Writing a death announcement in the first paragraph serves the purpose of letting the community know the details surrounding the loss of a loved one. Typically included in a death announcement are a loved one’s name, age, and place of residence, along with the time and place of death.

When writing a death announcement, it is common to use any of the following phrases:

• Beloved mother, sister, and friend
• Peacefully passed away
• Died after a long struggle with
• Passed after a hard fought battle with
• Entered fully into the presence of his Lord and Savior on August 13, 2017
• Returned to his heavenly home on January 29, 2014

As you write a death announcement, be sure to think about how the message will be perceived by friends, family, and the bereaved. For example, when you consider if you will write that a loved one “died” or “peacefully passed away,” what tone do you feel would be most appropriate for the context in which your loved one passed? Some may think that “died” is too strong, while others may prefer to state the facts as they are rather than use softer words like “pass.”

Another example would be the difference between “long struggle with” or “hard fought battle with.” Depending on the appropriate tone and context, there may be an argument for choosing one way of wording a phrase over another.

2. Tell their story as a brief biography

The biography section of an obituary is an impactful way of honoring the life of a loved one in a few paragraphs. There isn’t a defined maximum or minimum requirement for writing a biography, so don’t feel discouraged to write more if you feel like adding personal stories or emotions. But typically a brief biography will include important life events and milestones such as:

• Date and place of birth
• Parent’s names including mother’s maiden name in parentheses e.g. William and Jane (Maiden name) Johnson
• Date and place of marriage, including birth name of spouse
• Military Service
• Passions and hobbies

Tip: Before you begin writing an obituary, make sure to interview friends and family to gather notes about their life. While not every memory will be able to make it into the brief biography, your time interviewing family members can help you place a loved one’s life events in chronological order and discover passions and hobbies you may not have known about a loved one–not to mention also being a therapeutic exercise when grieving the loss of a loved one.

As you write a biography, be sure to consider how you might bring a loved one’s story to life with a few anecdotes, memories, and even inside jokes that readers might appreciate. Remember: this is an opportunity to commemorate a loved one in a way that they would want to be remembered. If they loved music, why not list a few of their favorite songs! If they were passionate about the outdoors, talk about their favorite places! Of course it’s all up to you.

3. Name their family members

Naming a loved one’s family members when writing an obituary has a lot of value and often can be seen as a way to connect a family around the life of one family member. For one, it gives community members a way to know who is a part of the family and therefore who might be grieving and need attention. Additionally, naming family members can serve the purpose of honoring those who have previously passed while making a tribute to the bereaved.

There are two key phrases that you need to be able to differentiate to avoid confusion and possibly even embarrassing family members:

• When listing family members who are still living , it is common to use phrases such as “survived by”.
• When listing family members who have previously passed away , it is common to use the phrase “preceded in death by” or “predeceased by.”

Remember: when listing family members, it's best practice to include close family such as parents, siblings, a spouse, children, and grandchildren. It’s common to name parents, siblings, a spouse, and children while it is less common to name all grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

Once you’ve identified the list of family members who you will want to include when writing an obituary, its common to use a semicolon (;) to indicate a pause between two statements. See an example of how to mention family members:

Bob is survived by his wife, five children and eight grandchildren as well as his sisters, Nila (Gigi), Nina, Norri, Dede and Carrie; his brothers, Danny and Mike (Toot); Son-in-Law Eric Jahnke; Daughter-in-Law Maia Conkey and numerous nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents, Margo and Samuel.

4. Outline service times, locations, and details

It is common for obituaries to list out funeral events, locations, times, and details so that community members know when and how to attend any events taking place. See an example of how to list funeral events:

A Memorial Service will be held at the American Legion Post 398 in Mound, MN on Thursday November 16 at 12pm (noon) followed by a banquet to celebrate Bobby's life; all are welcome.

Tip: On Ever Loved , it’s easy to list out funeral events with rich information such as maps in an elegant design. In addition, you can collect RSVPs to funeral events to make it easier to plan for the number of people who will attend the funeral events.

5. Special messages

Special messages are optional, but can add a touching finish to an already emotional obituary. Common special messages that are included at the end of an obituary include:

• Thanks given to the staff of a certain hospital, hospice, or nursing home (including doctors and nurses)
• “Flowers can be sent to” is a phrase commonly used to help instruct community members on ways in which they can send flowers. You can specify that “ flowers can be purchased on Ever Loved here ” if it makes it easier. Of course if you prefer to deter community members from donating flowers, you can use the phrase “in lieu of flowers” to instruct community members on other ways they can contribute. (This is often used when people prefer donations to a cause instead of flowers sent, for example.)
• A short prayer or poem can also add a nice touch

Photos can typically be added to obituaries published on newspapers for an additional fee. If you’re planning on publishing your obituary on Ever Loved , it’s free to create a page where you can share memories and collect pictures, memories, and condolences as part of creating an online memorial.

It’s important to get obituary writing help since an obituary can help express what’s at times hard to say, especially while grieving. An obituary can help acknowledge and announce the death so that a community may come together, commemorate a life well lived, and be provided with ways that they can participate in celebrating the life of a loved one. The best obituaries aren’t ones that are the most expensive to publish in a newspaper, rather obituaries that are well-written and are written from the heart are ones that stand out and stay with people forever. If you're struggling to get started on an obituary, you can also always check out some free obituary templates .

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This article was co-authored by David I. Jacobson and by wikiHow staff writer, Ali Garbacz, B.A. . David I. Jacobson is the founder of Chicago Jewish Funerals, an independent Jewish owned funeral provider that evolved into two funeral homes in the Chicagoland area. With over 30 years of experience serving families, David is a leading expert on Kavod Hamet, the Jewish traditions of honoring and respecting the dead. David is an active funeral director that serves people planning and in need of funerals, lecturing to congregations, community groups, and schools extensively about the values of the Jewish funeral as well as the dying process and the value of one’s legacy.  There are 8 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 1,100,367 times.

Writing an obituary is a great responsibility but also a very meaningful gesture. Losing a loved one is a difficult process to go through, but taking the time to write an obituary can help honor their life. An obituary provides important information about your loved one, such as when they passed away and when the funeral service takes place, but it can also paint a picture of the life they lived. We’ll take you through the steps of writing, revising, and submitting your obituary to be printed in the newspaper so that you can have an easier time writing a touching piece to remember your loved one.

Writing an Obituary

• Open with the person's name, where they lived, and when they passed away.
• Share a summary of their life in a short paragraph.
• Add a paragraph about their hobbies, passions, or characteristics.
• List their close family members.
• Write the time, date, and location of their funeral service if it's public.

• “On the morning of June 10, 2019, John William Smith of Atlanta died at the age of 80.”
• “On the evening of September 7, 2010, Angela “Angie” Lauren Brown passed away peacefully due to natural causes at Indiana University Health Methodist Hospital, IN. Angie was 75 years old.”
• “In the early morning of December 15, 2018, Joseph Mathew Lee passed away after a four-year battle with cancer while being tended to by staff at Northeastern Vermont Regional Hospital, VT. He was 50 years old.”

• “John was born to Tom and Jill Smith in 1950. He received his bachelor’s degree in 1976 and managed John’s Restaurant in Atlanta for 22 years. In July 1980, he married Jane Doe, and together raised two children, Anna and Benjamin.”
• “Angie was born in Sacramento, CA to John and Jane Brown in February 1935, though she spent most of her life in Indianapolis, IN. She worked as a freelance writer and received much recognition for her heartwarming novels.”
• “Joseph was born in 1968 to Harry and Linda Lee in Burlington. He earned his Master’s in Education and taught high school English for nearly 30 years. He met his wife, Sarah, while working towards his degree, and they married in September 1995.

• “John was an avid car collector in his spare time. When he wasn’t working at his restaurant, he would restore classic cars and show them at car shows. He was known for his good sense of humor and his contagious laughter among his friends.”
• “Besides writing, Angie was an active member of her community and spent a lot of time volunteering at her local animal shelter. She was especially fond of dogs, and nothing put a bigger smile on her face than when one of her furry friends went to a loving home.”
• “Nothing made Joseph happier than seeing his students succeed. He was known for coming in early and staying late so that he could help as many students as possible. He also never missed a school function, and was always there to cheer on the high school’s many sports teams.”
• You don’t need to include this section if you don’t have the space for it in your obituary.

• “John is preceded in death by his father, Tom, and his mother, Jill. He is survived by his wife, Jane, his 2 children, Anna and Benjamin, and several cousins, nieces, and nephews.”
• “Angie is preceded in death by her father John, her mother Jane, and her ex-husband Paul. She is survived by her sister Mary, her nieces Lily and Claire, and several cousins.”
• “Joseph is preceded in death by his father Harry and is survived by his mother Linda, his brother Tom, his sister Lucy, his wife Sarah, and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.”

• “A public memorial service will be held at 11:30 AM on June 11th, 2019 at the Church of Christ.”
• “A public visitation will be held from 2 PM to 6 PM on May 20th, 2022 at Eastside Funeral Home. A separate graveside service will take place on May 21st at 10 AM at Rolling Hill Cemetery.”
• You do not have to provide any information if there is no public service.
• Include information about the location for sending in flowers for a memorial or where people can make donations.

Tip: If you would rather have monetary donations at the service rather than flowers at the funeral, include a statement that says, “In lieu of flowers…” followed by the donation location.

• If you wrote your paper on a computer, print it out so you can easily mark up the page with what you need to change.

• Talk to multiple people that were close to your loved one to see if they have any stories or details they think should be included.

• If you’re looking to submit to more than one newspaper, you might have to write multiple versions of your obituary to fit each newspaper’s standards.
• If your obituary strays too far from a newspaper’s standards, they might rewrite it. This could lead to errors being accidentally written in, so do your best to make your version as close to their format as possible.
• Obituaries don’t need to look exactly the same, but they should contain all the important information necessary.

• Look into their pricing for printing as well. Most newspapers charge you based on how many inches your tribute takes up on the physical paper. These can get pretty pricey, so set a budget for yourself.

Tip: Many funeral packages offer obituaries with their services. If you’re using one, check with the package you have to see when you need to submit the obituary through them.

• Some newspapers charge an additional fee to publish pictures. Check with the paper’s obituary requirements to see.

• Even if you don’t make the print deadline, the obituary will still be published on the newspaper’s website.

• If you notice errors in your obituary once it’s been printed, contact the newspaper and let them know. They might reprint it for free the following day. [13] X Research source Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0
• Read other obituaries in the paper to get an idea of how they’re formatted. Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0

• Don’t include certain personal information, such as a birthdate or their mother’s maiden name, because identity thieves could steal the information and commit fraud. [14] X Research source Thanks Helpful 0 Not Helpful 0

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If you would like to write an obituary to honor someone’s life, start with a sentence that includes the person’s full name, age, where they lived, and when they passed away. Next, provide some biographical information, including where they were born, their educational background, and a few words about their family life. Then, offer details about the person’s hobbies, personality, and profession to let the reader know what the person was like. Finally, close with 1- 2 sentences about their remaining family and funeral arrangements. To learn how to submit your obituary, keep reading! Did this summary help you? Yes No

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“An obituary should be more about how someone lived versus the fact that they died,” says Victoria Chang, a Los Angeles-based poet and writer who wrote 70 obituary poems in the two weeks after her mother died of pulmonary fibrosis in 2015. Ever since, Chang has been a student of obituaries, seeking them out in newspapers and alumni magazines. “The diction is very flat and matter-of-fact,” she says. An obituary tends to have three distinct parts: the beginning (name, age, date of death, cause of death [if possible to include], work, education); the middle (anecdotes that celebrate the person’s life); and the end (so-and-so is survived by, which Chang calls “a very efficient way of saying who’s grieving.”)

If the deceased is a public figure, the job of writing an obituary falls to a journalist, probably a stranger. But most who pass will be eulogized by someone in the family. If you’re tasked with writing one, remember that your aim is to center the person’s life and not your grief, profound though it may be. In fact, your sorrow might act as a kind of writer’s block. Chang suggests jotting down the functional bookends first (who died, who survived), and then let yourself free-associate themes and memories that might end up in that middle part. If you’re feeling stuck or you had a difficult relationship with the person, ask friends and relatives for their recollections. “Everyone is special and quirky, and I think the best obituaries capture the essence of those qualities about each of us,” Chang says. What things did she collect? What did she love to eat? What brought her joy?

An obituary is for the living, but you should consider the sensibilities of the deceased. How would the person want to be remembered? “Imagine what they would write about themselves,” Chang says. It’s OK to be funny. “There’s a lot of humor and oddity, strange tensions and funny stuff about people and the things they do together,” Chang says. Obituaries, even simple ones, remind us of our briefness. After watching her mother die, Chang understood in a visceral way for the first time that she, too, would die. She thinks that if people spent more time acknowledging their mortality they’d live differently — kinder, more present. Writing an obituary can be a wake-up call. “This person is dead,” Chang says. “You’re alive.”

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April 5, 2024

Losing a loved one is a profound and emotional experience, often accompanied by many responsibilities. One of these might be writing an obituary, a task that can feel daunting during such a challenging time. But, with understanding and guidance, it's a task you can undertake to honor your loved one's life. In this guide, we provide you a step-by-step guide to writing an obituary and provide examples and templates .

The Purpose of an Obituary

An obituary serves as a formal announcement of someone's passing and a summary of their life's accomplishments and memories. It's typically published online, in newspapers, and occasionally in other media, like broadcast media or trade magazines. While not legally required, an obituary is a meaningful way to announce the news of a loved one's passing to the local community, family, and friends.

7 Parts of an Obituary

An obituary goes beyond merely sharing birth and death dates. It should include a description of their achievements, personality, and the following elements:

• Death announcement
• Biographical information or summary of life
• Memorable moments and accomplishments
• List of close friends and family
• Date and time of the memorial service
• Acknowledgments and donations
• Special Messages or pictures

Writing the Obituary: A 7-Step Guide

Understanding the parts of an obituary is the first step. Now, let's go through the process of writing the obituary. Follow each of these steps and use the template to write the obituary.

Step 1: Announce the Death

Begin by providing the following details about your departed loved one:

• Place of birth
• Date of death
• Place of death
• Cause of death. You may include the cause of death if you're comfortable and have the family's permission.

Step 1: Template

{Full name}, aged {age}, originally from {place of birth} and a long-time resident of {hometown}, passed away peacefully on {date of death} in {place of death}, due to {cause of death (optional)}.

Step 1: Example

Susan Elizabeth Johnson, aged 63, originally from Tulsa, Oklahoma, and a long-time resident of Tulsa, passed away peacefully on October 22, 2023, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, due to cancer.

Step 2: Include Biographical Info

Write about the significant achievements and events of your loved one's life. This could include their hobbies, education, or contributions to the community. Remember, every person is unique, which should be reflected in the obituary.

Step 2: Template

{First name} was born on {date of birth} to {parents' names} in {place of birth}. {He/She/They} grew up in {places of upbringing} and attended {schools, universities}. {First name} was known for {significant achievements, hobbies, community contributions}.

Step 2: Example

Susan was born on March 15, 1960, to Martha Green and Charles Johnson in Tulsa, Oklahoma. She grew up in Tulsa and attended Tulsa Central High School and the University of Oklahoma. Susan was known for her dedication as an elementary school teacher, her love for gardening, reading historical novels, bird watching, and her skill in quilting.

Step 3: Highlight Memorable Moments and Accomplishments

In this section, you should highlight significant life events, accomplishments, and memorable moments of your loved one's life. This could include their educational background, career highlights, awards, hobbies, or community service. Also, consider unique traits or passions that made them special.

Step 3: Template

Throughout {his/her/their} life, {First name} achieved {significant life events, awards, recognitions}. {He/She/They} was passionate about {hobbies, interests} and made a significant impact through {community service, career achievements}.

Step 3: Example

Throughout her life, Susan achieved recognition as a caring educator, touching the lives of countless children over her 30-year career. She was passionate about her hobbies and made a significant impact through her community service, including volunteering at the local food bank and leading the neighborhood watch program.

Step 4: List Family Members and Close Friends

Include a list of family members, close friends who have survived the deceased, and immediate family members who predeceased your loved one.

Step 4: Template

{First name} was predeceased by {family members who have passed away}. {He/She/They} is survived by {family members who are still alive}, including {specific family relations - spouse, children, grandchildren, close friends}.

Step 4: Example

Susan was predeceased by her parents, Martha and Charles, and her brother-in-law, Thomas Evans. She is survived by her loving husband, Michael Johnson; her children, David (Jessica) Johnson and Sarah (Mark) Thompson; and her grandchildren, Emily, Oliver, and Zoe. Also mourning her loss are her sister, Mary, and brother, Robert, along with their families.

Step 5: Provide Funeral or Memorial Details

List the details of the funeral, wake, or memorial service. Include the full date, time, and location, and state what happens daily. Include contact information for the funeral home for guests wanting additional details. Explain the type of service to help guests know what to expect.

Step 5: Template

A {funeral/memorial} service will be held on {date and time} at {location}. Further details about the service and daily events can be obtained from {contact information for the funeral home}.

Step 5: Example

A memorial service will be held on November 5, 2023, at 2:00 pm at Tulsa Community Chapel. Further details about the service and daily events can be obtained from the chapel's contact information.

Step 6: Acknowledgments and Donations

Lastly, include any acknowledgments to individuals, organizations, or care facilities that provided support during your loved one's last days. If appropriate, provide information on a preferred charity for memorial donations.

Step 6: Template

The family wishes to extend their gratitude to {individuals, organizations, care facilities} for their support. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to {preferred charity or cause} in {First name}'s memory.

Step 6: Example

The family wishes to extend their gratitude to the community and care facilities for their support. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the local food bank in Susan's memory.

Step 7: Include a Special Message or Pictures

Consider adding a special message in the form of a short prayer or funeral poem at the end of the obituary. If the publication allows, include a picture of your loved one. 

You should also include acknowledgments (like thanking hospice care staff) and donation instructions, especially if your loved one was passionate about a cause.

Step 7: Template

In remembrance of {First name}, the family shares {a special message, prayer, or funeral poem}. {Optional: Include a picture or collage of the deceased}.

Step 7: Example

In remembrance of Susan, the family shares this heartfelt message:

"Susan, your loving presence and tender care enriched our lives beyond measure. You leave behind a legacy of love and kindness that will continue to inspire us all. In our hearts forever, rest in peace, dear Susan."

Writing an obituary is undertaken with respect and care, a tribute to a loved one's life. It may be challenging, but also an opportunity to honor their life and legacy. We hope this guide helped you create an obituary your loved one would be proud of.

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After a loved one passes away, you may be asked to write an obituary for a newspaper or website. And although an obituary typically serves as a death announcement, it can also be a meaningful reflection of the life and accomplishments of the deceased.

However, if you’ve never written an obituary, knowing where to begin, what to include, and how to strike the right tone can be difficult. In this post, we’ll take you through the steps of writing an obituary so you can pay respects to your loved one and honor their memory fittingly.

Announce the Death and Provide Relevant Funeral Details

You should begin the obituary by stating that the person has died. You don’t have to include the cause of death but should mention the deceased’s full name, their place of birth, and the date and location of their passing.

Next, include relevant details about the funeral or memorial service, such as the date, time, location, and any special requests or instructions from the family regarding donations or flowers. For example, some families may prefer that people make donations to a specific organization rather than send flowers to the funeral home.

Give a Brief Biography of the Person

Include a short biography of the person who died, including information about the schools they attended, their career, and their hobbies and interests. Mention their notable achievements or awards they may have received. If a particularly memorable anecdote about the person’s life stands out, you can include it in this section. Keep in mind that if you’re unsure of any facts or details, you should consult with the person’s family or friends to clarify such points.

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List Relatives and Close Friends

After the biographical information, list surviving family members, including spouses, children, grandchildren, and siblings. You can also mention friends, other close relatives, or even pets of the deceased. Additionally, you can include family members who predeceased your loved one (meaning they died before your loved one).

End With a Thoughtful Message

You can choose to end the obituary with a unique message, such as a meaningful poem or quote, or by thanking those who helped care for your loved one (such as hospice workers) at the end of their life. You can also provide details on where condolences and memories can be shared, such as a social media page.

The person who has died may have requested that certain items be included in their obituary, such as information about a particular charity or cause. Again, if you’re unclear on this point, consult with friends or family members of your loved one whom they may have told.

Consult an Expert

Most obituaries will be proofread by the newspaper or website publishing them. However, if you’d prefer to have a professional carefully proofread or edit your obituary before submission, our expert editors are on hand to help. Learn more about our editing services , or if the text is 500 words or less, we’ll happily proofread it for free .

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His death in June at age 98 made news around the world and garnered obituaries in the New York Times , in People magazine and on CNN. Reiner was like many of us who turn right to the obits to see who has died, whether the individual is a politician, a celebrity or a neighbor from down the street.

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It's typically up to family or other loved ones to write an obituary. That's a tough task on its own. And it's often done while the bereaved are in mourning, grappling with myriad funeral details and notifying others of the loss.

"People have to do something entirely new that they've never done before at  their moment of grief ,” says Jane Lerner, a former journalist who wrote scores of obituaries and a column for a newspaper in New York state and then turned her experience into a business called Lives Lived: A Professional Obituary Writing Service .

Getting the structure down

The best obits are memorable portraits that reveal notable details about a person's life and how it affected others. But it's also important to include the basics of a person's life and to share any funeral service information.

Numerous free online resources and templates offer help with getting an outline set, including many offered by funeral homes. A checklist offered by Shirley Brothers Funeral Homes and Crematory in Indianapolis is typical. It includes:

• Any familial survivors
• When the person retired, if relevant
• Any military affiliations
• Any volunteer affiliations
• Date, time and location of the funeral
• Any viewing details
• Requests for donations in lieu of flowers

Some obituaries don't mention the cause of death. Lerner recommends including it if possible because readers will want to know, and then the rest of the piece can focus on the person's life. “An obituary doesn't need to be about how someone died but about how someone lived,” she says.

Celebrate what made your loved one unique

Did your mother play shortstop in high school or take a second job to put you through college? Take the time to highlight such details, and include what else made the deceased special, such as hobbies, nickname or proudest accomplishments.

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Priscilla Martel, a cookbook author and food writer who wrote the obituaries for her favorite uncle and her mother and father in the space of two years, compiled an engaging, well-rounded profile of each. She created a vibrant portrait of a singer who once opened for Tony Bennett, a collector of dollhouse miniatures who had a bouquet of friends, and a music shop owner who owned more than 100 cars in his lifetime and had a thriving second career as a classic car appraiser.

"You are really memorializing these people for eternity. It's an opportunity to craft something that is really about who they are, more than just a collection of milestones, military service, education, professional career and family,” Martel says.

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Most of us don't have all the facts or stories about our loved ones. To glean compelling details, reach out to relatives and family friends, Martel says. A bonus is connecting with those close to the deceased when many of us need an emotional boost.

If writing the obituary or contacting others for information is too much to take on, reach out for help. A funeral director should be able to offer guidance, and professional obituary writers can assist as well.

It's OK to add some levity

Death is no joke, of course, but it's fine to  sprinkle some humor into an obituary  . A Connecticut woman took this to extremes last year when she memorialized her prankster father, Joe Heller, 82, in a  hilarious and loving tribute  that went viral on social media and which the New York Times dubbed “The Best Obituary Ever."

It describes Heller as a hoarder who named his first dog Fart and left his family with “a house full of crap, 300 pounds of birdseed and dead houseplants that they have no idea what to do with.”

Amid the coronavirus pandemic, when  in-person funerals are limited  to a handful of mourners, obituaries are including more personal anecdotes than before, according to Stephen Segal, director of content for Legacy.com, an online obituary company that provides support and obituary-related services to newspapers and funeral homes in the United States, Canada, Australia, New Zealand and the United Kingdom.

How to place an obit in print or online

Newspapers have long been the go-to outlet for obituaries. Printing obituaries was once a free community service, but now most charge a fee that can climb from less than $100 to more than $1,000 depending on the length, whether you include a photo and how long it runs.

Lerner suggests sending the obituary to the deceased's alumni publication, religious community and interest group newsletters, and also posting it on social media, which are all free of charge. “Some obits are so good they have gone viral,” she says.

For newspapers, funeral homes will handle the logistics. Tracy McClarnon, a coordinator at Shirley Brothers Mortuaries & Crematory in Indianapolis, advises paying for a short obituary with service details and then linking to the funeral home website for a longer obituary, which is often part of the funeral package.

To do it yourself, most newspapers have user-friendly portals with deadlines, fees and instructions on how to upload the text. The paper will share a proof of the obit so you can check for accuracy and make any changes before it runs.

Many newspapers automatically publish paid death notices on Legacy.com, an online obituary service with its own suite of paid options.

"In the absence of a physical funeral, the obituary is taking an even more prominent role as the place where those stories get told, where those memories get shared, where a loved one's life story is honored and preserved,” Segal says.

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After a loved one passes away, you may be asked to write a heartfelt obituary for a newspaper, website, or social media platform. 

But do you write an obituary? 

An obituary acts as a summary of your loved one’s life and legacy. Talk about their accomplishments and favorite things. An obituary also informs people that someone has died and includes details about their funeral, burial, and memorial service. The obituary should include memorable stories from friends and family.

Losing a loved one is one of the most challenging processes to go through in life. However, you can use the obituary as an opportunity to honor your loved one’s life to show how important this person was to you. 

By following the steps outlined in this tutorial, you’ll be able to write a great obituary your loved one would be proud of.

In today’s in-depth guide, you’ll learn:

The purpose of an obituary

The elements of an obituary

How to write an obituary in 5 steps

Self-written obituary templates

Generalized obituary templates

How to plan ahead with Trustworthy

Purpose of an Obituary

An obituary is a written announcement sharing the news that someone has passed away. It also sums up a lifetime of your loved one’s accomplishments and memories. Furthermore, obituaries are typically published online or in newspapers but can be found in other media, such as broadcast media or trade magazines.

Although there is no legal requirement of needing to write an obituary when someone passes away, it’s a good way to share the news of your loved one’s passing with family, friends, and the local community. 

Elements of an Obituary

An obituary doesn’t only share your loved one’s birth and death date, but it also includes a photo of the individual, along with a description of their achievements and personality. 

In essence, the elements of an obituary include:

Death announcement

Date and time of memorial service

Biographical information or summary of life

List of close friends and family

Memorable moments and accomplishments

Funeral or memorial details

Acknowledgments and donations

Writing the Obituary (5 Steps)

Now that you understand what an obituary is and what elements to include, let’s discuss how to write the actual obituary. 

Step 1: Announce the Death

When writing the obituary, you should start by including the following information about your fallen loved one:

Place of birth

Date of death

Place of death

You don’t need to include the cause of death in the obituary if you’re uncomfortable sharing this information. However, if you want to include the cause of death, please ask the family for permission first. 

Step 2: Provide Service Times

The next step is to list the details of where and when the funeral will take place. You should also include details of the wake or memorial service. This includes all the relevant information about the planned services, such as the full date, time, and location.

You should also state what is happening each day. Including the email or number for the funeral home may also be valuable for guests who want to check with them for further details. 

It’s crucial to concisely explain what type of service it is. This helps the guests understand what to expect in terms of wardrobe expectations and what they may need to bring. 

Step 3: Include Biographical Info

When writing an obituary for your loved one, it is important to include details about their life. However, you may need to be cautious about where the obituary is published. This is because newspapers may charge you per word. Therefore, you may need to set yourself a word limit.

In terms of what to write, you should recount the most significant achievements and events in your loved one’s life. This may include their hobbies, education, or contributions to the community. Every single person is unique, and this should be clearly reflected in the obituary. 

Step 4: List Family Members and Close Friends

It’s customary to include a list of family members, close friends who have survived the deceased, and immediate family members who predeceased your loved one. 

Step 5: Include a Special Message or Pictures

Sometimes, people include a special message in the form of a short prayer or funeral poem at the end of an obituary. Although it’s entirely up to you as the writer, it can be a great way to remember your loved one.

In addition, you should include a picture of your loved one if the publication accepts them. This should be the best picture of your loved one. It’s typically a clear headshot that displays your loved one in the best way possible. This adds a personal touch and puts a face to the description.

You may also want to add in acknowledgments and donations. For example, if your loved one received hospice care before they passed, you may want to thank the facility staff. 

Finally, donation instructions are the last customary element to include in the obituary. For instance, if your loved one had a cause they were passionate about, you can explain that donations can be donated to help that cause. 

Obituary Writing Tips

One of the most important obituary writing tips to know is that there is no right or wrong way to go about it. What’s most essential is the intention and remembering your loved one.

Nevertheless, keep the following tips in mind:

Accuracy : The obituary’s details and information must be factual and correct. Before you begin, gather all the information you think you may need and fact-check it with your loved one’s family members and friends.

Collaboration: Speak with people your loved one had close relationships with to gain insights from people who knew them the best. This allows their closest friends and family members to be part of the process. It also helps you learn new and interesting stories to include in the obituary.

Proofread: You should be prepared to edit the obituary for spelling and grammar a few times. Having a second pair of eyes to proofread the obituary is incredibly helpful.

Obituary Example

John Whittaker, 84, of St. Louis, entered into God’s kingdom on July 1st, 2022. He was born June 10, 1954, to Mary and Charles Whitaker.

John, the most loving and devoted husband, father, and grandfather is survived by his wife, Julia; sons, Mark and Henry; daughter, Stephanie; grandsons Alexander and Joseph; and his faithful dog, Chewy. 

Upon graduation from Riverside County High School, John joined the Army to serve his country, which took him out to San Diego. Upon leaving the military and a few years after university, John met the love of his life, the woman who would stand by his side through thick and thin, Julia. 

Feeling obligated to raise their family back home in St. Louis, they loaded their family into a van and made the long and rigorous journey across the nation. Once back in St. Louis, John tirelessly and faithfully supported his family by working two jobs for nearly 20 years.

John had the personality and natural charisma to make friends no matter the situation, and his laugh was infectious to everyone around him. A man of many stories, some factual and others not so factual, all that would draw out inspiring conclusions.

As a man of true integrity, John would never budge under any circumstances, regardless of if anyone had any idea why his words meant. A man with a simple taste of slacks and t-shirts, he focused on providing his children with the best life possible without worrying about himself. 

John was a truly great man whose impact will be forever felt by his family, that loves him dearly. He was a selfless man whose passing left an unfillable gap in the hearts of his loved ones. His ability to sacrifice, provide, support, forgive, and love will be forever engrained in all he knew.

A memorial service will take place at 10 a.m. on August 29 at Covenant Funeral Service, 1234 Kennedy Drive, St. Louis. Donations can be made to Operation Second Chance. 

Generalized Obituary Templates

Let’s take a look at a few obituary examples. You can use these as inspirations for your writing, but remember, there’s no “right”  way of writing an obituary. It just has to be meaningful to you.

Keep in mind that these examples are briefer than what you should include in yours. You should add in a lot more personal details based on the guidelines above. 

[NAME], a fourth-grade elementary school teacher, passed away at the age of [X] on [DATE]. For 35 years, he served as a guide and leader for children in the community. The students at [SCHOOL] treasured [NAME]. As a graduate of [UNIVERSITY], [NAME] was a kindhearted and composed instructor who impacted the lives of his students during his career.

[NAME] leaves behind his wife of 55 years years, [SPOUSE], and his children [CHILD] and [CHILD]. The funeral service with be held at [LOCATION] at [TIME] and [DATE]. All are welcome to attend. To honor [NAME], [SCHOOL] is accepting donations to dedicate a section of the school library to [NAME] for his service.

[NAME], a long-time resident of the Chicago area, died [DATE] surrounded by her close family. She was born in Portland and was the only daughter of [PARENT] and [PARENT]. After receiving her BA from [UNIVERSITY], she married her high school sweetheart, [SPOUSE]. She was a caring mother and active community member.

Her work included planning Chicago’s annual winter festival and holiday celebrations. [NAME] was also passionate about music, volunteering to help several local bands for over 15 years. She leaves behind her husband and her daughter, [CHILD]. Funeral services will be held at [LOCATION] on [DATE] at [TIME]. The [LAST NAME] family requests memorial gifts in [NAME]’s honor for the city’s local musicians program. 

[NAME], age [X], of San Fransisco, passed away on [DATE]. Born in Boise in [YEAR], [NAME] received his Bachelor of Science in Finance from [UNIVERSITY] in 1957. He directed the Finance Division at [COMPANY] for 30 years. In his spare time, he loved golf, visiting family, and traveling the world. He was proud to have visited over 50 countries in his long and fulfilling life.

Most of all, many will remember how his laugh could change the energy of an entire room. [NAME] is survived by his children, [CHILD] and [CHILD], and wife, [SPOUSE]. Funeral services will take place at [LOCATION] on [DATE] at [TIME]. In remembrance, the [LAST NAME] family is accepting donations to donate to the local youth center. 

Planning Ahead With Trustworthy

It’s important to be prepared for life’s toughest moments. While writing an obituary is one part of the post-death process, there are dozens of other tasks to handle, from settling your loved one’s estate, to carrying out their last wishes, and much more.

Trustworthy is an advanced digital storage and collaboration platform you can use to store all of life’s important documents, including estate documents. 

For example, you can upload your will and share access to the document with trusted loved ones. This way, your family will know exactly what to do when worst comes to worst.

Every adult should have an estate plan ready, no matter their financial status or circumstance. If you pass away without a will (also known as dying intestate), the state will step in to make choices and decisions for you. This situation adds stress, time, and increased costs. It also causes potential arguments within your family. 

Fortunately, you can plan, organize, and securely share your documents with Trustworthy's innovative cloud-based storage database. In Trustworthy, you can also include your burial or funeral wishes, so your family knows how to handle these post-death memorials. 

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Looking for obituary examples to help you write an obituary for a loved one?  Look no further — we’ve assembled a collection of the best examples of obituaries that you’ll find online or in print today.

This carefully curated collection offers a wide variety of styles and information for you to select from. Feel free to copy elements from our obituary examples that appeal to you and that reflect your loved one’s life.

We’ve organized our examples of obituaries into the following themes, though we do recommend that you read the entire post as you never know when you’ll find a line that is particularly appropriate for the obituary that you are writing.

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Wondering how to write an obituary?   Publishing an obituary is usually an early step after a loved one passes away.  Here are elements that are typically included:

• Deceased’s full name (required)
• Years of birth and death (required) and months (optional)
• When and where the funeral or memorial service will be held (if applicable)
• Names of family members, both surviving and predeceased (optional)
• Chronology of major life events (optional)
• Major life achievements and awards (optional)
• Where flowers can be sent or charity donations made (optional)

Obituaries can also have different writing styles — as you will see in the obituary examples below — that you can match with the personality of your loved one:

• Efficient (i.e. short and succinct)
• Lengthy (for those that loved to tell a good story!)
• Self-written (for those that want to control the narrative of their own life)

There are, however, a few things that should never go into an obituary  because these details make you and your family vulnerable to theft or fraud :

• Home addresses
• Maiden name
• Complete dates of births and deaths

The reason for omitting these elements is that identity fraud can be a real problem, and there are unscrupulous people that may try and take advantage of your loved one. It can be a real headache for families, taking years to resolve in some cases.

Obituary Examples For Moms

Obituary for donna smith.

When it comes to examples of obituaries for mom, this is a beautiful one because it conveys what a caring and compassionate person she was.

Donna Monteen Smith, age 73, passed away peacefully December 17, 2014 due to diabetes and congestive heart failure. She was born March 2, 1941 in Ooltewah, Tennessee to Carl and Annie Lynn. She eloped and married her longtime friend and love, James Nathaniel Smith, in October of 1960 who preceded her in death in 1994.

Donna loved to love on people. She sewed dolls and little quilted sayings constantly. Her hands were rarely still. Raggedy Annes and Andies were her favorites. She also shared her love with food such as fresh cut fries for her grandsons, lasagna and real fried chicken.

For many years Donna worked at Atria/Crosslands Retirement Community in Sandy. It suited her servant heart. She said she did it because of a promise she made her grandpa, Thomas Bush. He used to always say: “Do what’s right and do what’s good. Be kind and help others. The world can always use one more kind person. And if you can take it one step further, please do it for people grandpa’s age.”

Her life was a living example of her favorite Bible verse, Ephesians 4:32 — “And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.”

Donna is survived by her brother and wife Tommy and Carolyn Lynn, sister and husband Mary and Vitali Abazade; sister-in-law, Juanita Cooper; her three sons and their wives Allen and Theresa Smith, Jamie and Heather Smith, and Randy Smith; grandchildren, Faith Henry, Sara Gurley, Colton Smith, Cody Smith, Derek Sharp, and Jeremy Sharp; plus 3 great grandchildren and her many nephews and nieces. All of these she loved and touched deeply.

Please join us celebrating her life Saturday morning December 20, 2014, between 10:00 a.m. — 12 Noon at Goff Mortuary, 8090 S State St, Midvale. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to her grandsons’ charity for wounded veterans at www.camppatriot.org.

Obituary For Kathleen M. “Kathy” Callahan

This example of an obituary was chosen for this collection because it paints a picture of what a wonderful mother Kathleen was, and how sorely she will be missed.

Family & friends are invited to attend visiting hours on Friday, May 18th from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m., in the Vertuccio and Smith, Home for Funerals, 773 Broadway (Rt. 107) Revere for Kathleen M. “Kathy” Callahan, who died tragically in an auto accident in Saugus on Mother’s Day, Sunday May 13th.

She was 47 years old. A funeral will be conducted from the funeral home on Saturday, May 19th at 10:00 a.m., followed by a funeral mass at 11:00 a.m. in St. Anthony of Padua Church 250 Revere St., Revere. Interment will be private.

Kathy was born & raised in Charlestown. She was educated Boston Public Schools and attended East Boston High School. Kathy worked various jobs throughout her young life. She worked at State Bank in Quincy. She also worked at area Dunkin Donuts as a clerk, and for the past 5 years at the Essex St., Saugus Dunkin Donuts location. She also had a flair for baking, she worked at the Stop & Shop Bakery in Danvers and formerly the Revere locations.

Kathy was a dedicated mother first and foremost. She treasured her children and embraced every moment with them. She especially loved her role as Nana. She had a vivacious personality and always made people around her laugh. She made friends everywhere she went and her customers at Dunkin Donuts and Stop & Shop loved her as well.

She is the loving & devoted mother of Latia M. Torres of Windsor Locks, CT., Eddy S. Torres of Revere, Chad Callahan of Cape Cod, Ashley L. Scoppettuolo, Carmen G. Scoppettuolo, Tiffany C. Scoppettulo & Samantha J. Scoppettuolo, all of Revere.

Cherished fiancé of Joseph Cobb of Saugus. Adored nana of Koda Leo’n Lumpkin. Loving daughter of the late Mary Callahan. Dear sister of Robert W. “Ian” McFadries & wife Maureen of Ashburnham, Robin Callahan and husband Joe Zambiella of Tyrone, PA, Laurie Angelucci and husband Steve of Deptford Township, NJ, William Michael Brown of Tampa FL & Georgie-Lynn Marie Oursler of Deptford Township, NJ Also loving survived by the Scoppettuolo Family of Revere and many nieces & nephews.

Kathy was also a longtime member of Club 24 in Malden. It was a very special place that was near & dear to her heart.”

Obituary For Margaret (Marge) Aitken Holcombe

This obituary example was self-penned, and is full of humour and reflects the larger-than-life personality of the author.

I died at Hilton Head Hospital from a wide assortment of ailments on Tuesday, August 12, 2014. When a friend facetiously asked if I was writing my obituary before or after I passed away, I told her “Carol, I know my limitations.”

I was born in Paterson, N.J. to Robert Jr. and Isabella Findlay, Aitken, wonderful parents, on January 20, 1930. It was the era of “Children should be seen and not heard” and my sister Heather and I were thought to be deaf mutes for most of our childhood.

After graduation from Paterson Central High school In January, 1948, I took a “summer job” with N.J. Bell Telephone Co. as a stenographer (who could not type — and never could) and ended my 35 years with them as District Manager, Residence Services. I never thought of giving up my day job to attend college because I was making the magnificent sum of $33 a week. With the help of that lavish salary and a couple of scholarships, I was relieved — make that worn out — that I did graduate in four years with a Rutgers BA in social studies with highest honors. I did this by concurrently attending Fairleigh Dickinson, Fordham and Rutgers Universities while holding down a full time job. I hope you won’t think me otiose. (I always wanted to use that word.)

When we retired to the Island in 1984, I volunteered for the Hilton Head Orchestra League, was President of the Port Royal Racquet Club, and served on the Hilton Head Hospital Auxiliary Board. I chaired the hospital’s 1990 Charity Ball and also chaired fund-raising dinners for the hospital. As a board member of the Friends of Hilton Head Library, I initiated the ongoing Book Break series and chaired the 2000 and 2001 events. And you thought I was just another plain face, but very wrinkled.

At the hospital, my volunteer job was to prepare the production reports for one department which I did for 20 years and was just getting the hang of it, when catastrophe struck. I had worked out the calculations by sliding counters along rods on my abacus. One of the important hospital staff spied this little old lady happily working her ancient tool and didn’t feel that it quite projected the image that our hospital wanted — a high tech facility fast-forwarding into modern times. In short order, the abacus was gone (I think to the Smithsonian) and the reports were outsourced to India.

I enjoyed my life and want to thank some of those that made this possible. Topping the list is family and close survivors, the most important, my husband Jack, was always my knight in shinning armour — well, actually my knight in tennis shorts, but for a romantic spin, I’ll go with the armor. He was taken from me suddenly in April, 2014; he’ll live with me forever.

Surviving is my sister, Heather (Emil) Scaglione of Lavallette, N.J. She is funny, warm, overly generous and the best sister, bar none. My adored nieces are Susan (David) Helterban of Sewell, N.J.; Patricia (Robert) O’Herlihy of Ridgewood, N.J.; Roberta Tomlinson of Lavallette, N.J. I’m fortunate to have a special cousin, Dawn (Kurt) Eigenmann of Sun City and lucky, to have inherited stepson, Jon (Charlotte) of Medford, N.J. and stepdaughter Lisa Holcombe of Santa Cruz, California. Lighting up our lives were our “adopted daughters”, Beverly Maloney and Jessica Bevan of Hilton Head. I was blessed with an angel who became my friend and caregiver, Elaine Kellmen.

Carol Mueller of Hilton Head gave new meaning to the word “friend”. She was my personal shopper for everything from greeting cards to clothes. She brought lunch every week and encouraged me to socialize, exercise and get well, generally making a pest of herself. (Kidding, Carol.) I don’t know what I would have done without her and thank goodness I never had to find out.

I am beholden to Burke’s Main Street Pharmacy for letting me use their store as a meeting place with old friends; it was the center of my social life. David, the younger and more handsome (his words) and Tim, the older and more intelligent (his words) of the brothers Burke would ask “Can we help you or would you just like to wander aimlessly?” I chose the latter and came to know their stock better than they did. Our condo looked like Burke’s Annex; I had everything from a simple cane to a wheelchair. When we moved, Burke’s sent my prescriptions right to my door at Seabrook and their friendly delivery man’s knock became the highlight of my day. We’re talking mad social life here.

The Seabrook was a godsend. The services they offered were perfect — I didn’t have to leave the premises. The professional and helpful staff, the friendly atmosphere, makes it a special place. But the jewel of Seabrook is the food, for this “World’s Best Worst Cook” to have the island’s ultimate restaurant available each evening was beyond my wildest dreams. My waistline, if you could find it, was testament to Seabrook’s cuisine.

I’m thankful for the uplifting courses offered by Life Long Learning of Hilton Head Island. I joined LLHHI because just being among them made me seem more intelligent that I was — an easy task. This organization advertises that the courses, are taught by our peers — my peers they weren’t — not even close.

Before coming to the Island, the only thing I wrote were checks. Then the Island Packet, in 1996, asked for comments on how to unclog traffic problems on Rt. 278. I sent in a column that suggested, humorously, that the solution was for drivers to make Right Turns Only.” Thus began a 12 year “career” writing a monthly humor column for the Packet. Fortunately, my editor was David Lauderdale.

Not only is he a talented writer and a superb storyteller, but more importantly a good man. In case I make a return trip here, I want to cover all the bases.

As a surprise for our 35th wedding anniversary, my husband published my first 84 columns in a book titled, May All Your Turns Be Right Ones.” I never made left turns; it took a little longer to get places, but it cut down on the agita. The Hilton Head Rotary Club marketed the book with all proceeds going to their project of building a new home for Deep Well.

Then for my 80th birthday, my spouse had the remaining columns set in a book, cleverly titled, “May All Your Turns Always Be Right Ones.” Again, the Rotary club sold the books with the monies designated to building a new home for Memory Matters. At a Rotary meeting we were invited to attend, Jack and I were shocked and surprised to be presented with a Paul Harris fellowship. We were honored and humbled being aware of how infrequently these fellowships are awarded to Non-Rotarians, I likened it to be second only to receiving the Congressional Medal of Honor. Thank you Hilton Head Rotary.

In 2012, The Girl Scouts of America celebrated their 100th anniversary. Being a Girl Scout added so much to my life. I was honored to be a scout and absolutely thrilled to spend three summer weeks each year at Camp Te Ata in upstate New York. My husband was fascinated when I explained that one of our projects was to start a fire in the woods and heat some stew ingredients (don’t ask) in a tin coffee can. It was a meal to die for, which I’m certain, some campers did. Strange, I never had one request for the “Camp Te Ata” stew recipe.

Everyone thinks that his or her doctor is the best, but I win this contest hands down. My oncologist, Dr. Gary Thomas, who, by the way is a dead ringer for the comic actor, Jim Carrey, is a credit to his profession, and a source of strength to his patients. His staff of angels is incredible. When he called Jack and me to his office to confirm the diagnosis of multiple myeloma, my husband asked if we would see any physical changes in me. He answered, “She’ll probably grow a tail” — Jim Carrey could not have quipped it better. Luckily, Veronica’s Secret assured me that their back-slit hostess skirt was ideally suited for my condition. What a relief.

Dr. Michael Platt, my ideal primary physician for over 20 years is the kind of doctor everyone wishes they had. He is a warm, caring man who takes time with each patient; a superb diagnostician and an all-around good human being. For all these reasons, I call him “Dr. Perfect,” (I’m sure he’s thrilled with that title). Aware of my limited mental capabilities, he scheduled extra time for my visits. Dr. P spoke slowly, drew diagrams using simple stick figures and demonstrated my problem with the full-figured skeleton to help me out. His nurse, Barbara, was always patient and kind. I couldn’t have been in better hands.

A big hug to Dr. Dorian Colorado and the wonderful staff at the Animal Care Clinic. When our 14 year old Cocker Spaniel, Mr. Chips, was failing, Dr. Colorado took him to her home so he would be surrounded by familiar faces and fed him bits of his favorite food. She summoned us to her clinic on a Sunday so the three of us could say our goodbyes with loving last kisses from Chips AND she delivered her first child the next morning. I told Dr. C that when my time comes to be “put down”, she has the job.

The delight of our later years is the already named Natalie-Love-Bug (don’t you love it?) a friendly, huggy-kissy cocker spaniel.

Because our pets give us unconditional love and enrich our lives, I would be honored to have donations made to the Hilton Head Humane Association, P.O. Box 21790, Hilton Head Island, SC, 29925 or Hospice Care of the Lowcountry, PO Box 3827, Bluffton, SC, 29910.

I’ve had a wonderful life and thank you to all who made it so.

Love, Marge

Obituary For Mary Stocks

This obituary is another example of a humorous obituary that shares the wonderful personality of a beloved mother, Mary Stocks.

She left behind a hell of a lot of stuff to her daughter and sons who have no idea what to do with it.

So if you’re looking for 2 extremely large TV’s from the 90s, a large ceramic stork (we think) umbrella/cane stand, a toaster oven (slightly used) or even a 2001 Oldsmobile with a spoiler (she loved putting the pedal to the metal), with only 71,000 kilometers and 1,000 tools that we aren’t sure what they’re used for.

You should wait the appropriate amount of time and get in touch. Tomorrow would be fine.

This is not an ad for a pawn shop, but an obituary for a great Woman, Mother, Grandmother and Great-Grandmother born on May 12, 1921 in Toronto, the daughter of the late Pop (Alexander C.) and Granny (Annie Nigh) Morris.

She leaves behind a very dysfunctional family that she was very proud of. Pat was world-renowned for her lack of patience, not holding back her opinion and a knack for telling it like it is.

She always told you the truth even if it wasn’t what you wanted to hear.

It was the school of hard knocks and yes we were told many times how she had to walk for miles in a blizzard to get to school, so suck it up. With that said she was genuine to a fault, a pussy cat at heart (or lion) and yet she sugar coated nothing.

Her extensive vocabulary was more than highly proficient at knowing more curse words than most people learned in a lifetime.

She liked four letter words as much as she loved her rock garden and trust us she LOVED to weed that garden with us as her helpers, when child labour was legal or so we were told.

These words of encouragement, wisdom, and sometimes comfort, kept us in line, taught us the “school of hard knocks” and gave us something to pass down to our children.

Everyone always knew where you stood with her. She liked you or she didn’t, it was black or white. As her children we are still trying to figure out which one it was for us (we know she loved us).

She was a master cook in the kitchen. She believed in overcooking everything until it chewed like rubber so you would never get sick because all germs would be nuked.

Freezing germs also worked, so by Friday our school sandwiches were hard and chewy, but totally germ free. All four of us learned to use a napkin.

You would pretend to cough, spit the food into it and thus was born the Stocks diet. If anyone would like a copy of her homemade gravy, we would suggest you don’t.

She will be sorely missed and survived by her brother George Morris, children: Shauna (Stocks) Perreault, Paul/Sandy (Debbie) Stocks and Kirk Stocks, son-in-law Ian Milnes and son from another mother, John McCleery, grandchildren: Lesley (Sean), Lindsay (Lucas), Ashley (James), David (Tia), Brett, Erin (Brian), Sean, Alex, Courtney and Taylor and great-grandchildren: Connor, Emily, Ainsley, Tyler and Jack.

She was preceded in death by her loving husband Paul (Moo) Stocks and eldest daughter Shelley (Stocks) Milnes and beloved pets Tag, Tag, Tag and Tag.

All whom loved her dearly and will never forget her tenacity, wit, charm, grace (when pertinent) and undying love and caring for them.

Please give generously to covenanthousetoronto.ca “in memory”. A private family “Celebration of Life” will be held, in lieu of a service, due to her friends not being able to attend, because they decided to beat her to the Pearly Gates.

Please note her change of address to her new place of residence, St John’s York Mills Anglican Church, 19 Don Ridge Drive, 12 doors away from Shelley’s place.

Obituary For Barbara Bustin Glenn

This obituary for mother, Barbara Glenn, is a touching example of how to celebrate a rich and full life before the onset of Alzheimer’s.

The mother of Mike Glenn, senior pastor of Brentwood Baptist Church, passed away on July 14, 2018 while surrounded by her family, after a long fight with Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia. She was 81.

Barbara Bustin Glenn was born on March 14, 1937 in Laurel, Mississippi, and was preceded in death by her husband of 57 years, John M. Glenn. He worked for 30 years as an instructor for the Army Missile Command at Redstone Arsenal, and owned a television and appliance store in Huntsville, Alabama, and was active in civic affairs having served on the City Council for 12 years. Both John and Barbara Glenn were long time members of University Baptist Church in Huntsville, Alabama.

In 2014, after she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Mike relocated his mother to Nashville so that he and his wife Jeannie could provide more care for her. Mike visited with his mother regularly and frequently wrote about her and her illness in his blog MikeGlennOnline.com. He wrote, “Unless you knew my mom before the illness you really can’t understand how sad this really is.”

‘My mom was the strongest woman I’ve ever met. She wasn’t afraid of anyone or anything. She was a fierce Mama Bear. There are stories I can tell you — like the one when I was little kid and an older kid pulled a knife on me. My mother blew through the kitchen door like a tornado. I think that kid is still running from my mom.”

Until her health condition made it impossible, Mrs. Glenn was active in the life of the church at Brentwood Baptist, working with many ministry efforts including the Nurture Team. She was a gifted musician. Mike said, “her piano playing is the soundtrack of my life.”

Brian Dodridge, executive pastor of Brentwood Baptist Church, said, “The Trustees, church staff, and many members of Brentwood Baptist who love our Pastor share in the loss of Barbara and will grieve along with Mike and his family.”

Mrs. Glenn is survived by her sons, Dr. Michael L. Glenn (Jeannie) and Mitch Glenn; grandsons, Chris Glenn (Deb), Craig Glenn (Nan), Marshall Glenn, Brandon Frazier; three great-granddaughters and one great-grandson. She is also survived by her sisters, Dianne Nowell, Karleen Adams, and Jenny Gibson.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Medical Dental Unit of Brentwood Baptist Church, and an online guestbook is available at AustinFuneralService.com.

Obituary For Lillian Chapman

This is an example of a simple obituary for a mother.  It shows that writing an obituary does not have to be a complicated task in order to convey how many people will miss a beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother.

Lillian Chapman beloved wife of the late Stanley Chapman.   Much loved mother of Bill Crosbie,  Tina Larsen and Angela Black (Barry).  Cherished grandmother of Adam (Amanda), Christopher, Jennifer (Chris), Jaime (Chris), Amanda (Jason) and Barry (Catherine). 

Great grandmother of Faith, Julia Makayla, Dean, Lily and Mason, Malie, Tatum and Willa. Daughter of the late Lewis and Louise Walton.  

Dear sister of John Walton (Carol), Lorne Walton (Elsie), Lynda Cellini (Tony) and the late Louise Walton. Remembered by her many nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be held at the Simcoe Funeral Home 38 James Street E. Orillia on Tuesday March 6th from 12 noon until time of funeral services in the chapel at 2 p.m. 

A reception and time of visitation will follow until 6:00 p.m. Lil was most comfortable in her jeans.  Please honour her by wearing yours if you choose on this day.

As an expression of sympathy memorial donations may be made to the Gideon Bible Memorial Plan. Messages of condolence are welcomed at www.simcoefuneralhome.com.

Obituary For Anne Margaret Pybus

This example of an obituary for a mother paints a vivid picture of a woman who lived an interesting life and who left a lasting legacy.

She left us while sleeping peacefully at her residence in Markham, Ontario. She was in her 99 th   year.

Born in Saltburn-by-the-Sea, Yorkshire, England, she witnessed incredible changes to her world, having served in the Women’s Auxiliary Force of the RAF during WW2 as an ambulance driver transporting wounded soldiers from the battlefields near the English Channel to the hospitals in London.

During the war she met her loving husband Ronald Pybus, who also served with the RAF in 212 Squadron. Married in England in 1946, they immigrated to Canada in 1947, settling in Toronto.  

She was the beloved mother of Keith (Susan) and James (Michele), proud grandmother of Jeff, Shannon, Erin, Lia and Jillian.

Predeceased by her devoted husband Ron, sister Phyllis, brothers Nick, Joseph, Robert, Albert, John, Matthew and Frederick.

Anne lived a full life as a wonderful mother, homemaker and worker in the retail and manufacturing sector.

She loved to cook, kept an immaculate house, was highly skilled with knitting needles and crochet hooks, and enjoyed her weekly outings to the local bowling alley. A farm girl at heart, gardening was also a passion.

Most of all she loved her family and instilled in her sons strong values that have served them well. She will be dearly missed and forever in our hearts.

A celebration of Anne’s life will be held at Amica Swan Lake, 6360 16 th Avenue, Markham, Ontario on Friday, March 30, 2018 beginning at 2 p.m.

Obituary Examples For Dads

Obituary for aaron joseph purmort.

This dad decided to write his own obituary, injecting it with the humour that he was known for.  It is a great example to get inspiration from if your dad had a larger-than-life personality.

November 25 after complications from a radioactive spider bite that led to years of crime-fighting and a years-long battle with a nefarious criminal named Cancer, who has plagued our society for far too long.

Civilians will recognize him best as Spider-Man, and thank him for his many years of service protecting our city.

His family knew him only as a kind and mild-mannered Art Director, a designer of websites and t-shirts and concert posters, who always had the right cardigan and the right thing to say (even if it was wildly inappropriate). Aaron was known for his long, entertaining stories, which he loved to repeat often.

In high school, he was in the band The Asparagus Children, which reached critical acclaim in the northern suburbs. As an adult, he graduated from the College of Visual Arts (which also died an untimely death recently) and worked in several agencies around Minneapolis, settling in as an Interactive Associate Creative Director at Colle + McVoy. Aaron was a comic book aficionado, a pop-culture encyclopedia and always the most fun person at any party.

He is survived by his parents Bill and Kim Kuhlmeyer, father Mark Purmort (Patricia, Autumn, Aly), sisters Erika and Nicole, first wife Gwen Stefani, current wife Nora and their son Ralph, who will grow up to avenge his father’s untimely death.

Obituary For Chris Connors

When Chris’ daughter Caitlin decided to write a funny obituary for her dad, she never thought it would go viral. This is a great example of how to inject your loved one’s personality into his obituary.

Chris Connors died, at age 67, after trying to box his bikini-clad hospice nurse just moments earlier.

Ladies man, game slayer, and outlaw Connors told his last inappropriate joke on Friday, December 9, 2016, that which cannot be printed here.

Anyone else fighting ALS and stage 4 pancreatic cancer would have gone quietly into the night, but Connors was stark naked drinking Veuve in a house full of friends and family as Al Green played from the speakers.

The way he died is just like he lived: he wrote his own rules, he fought authority and he paved his own way. And if you said he couldn’t do it, he would make sure he could.

Most people thought he was crazy for swimming in the ocean in January; for being a skinny Irish Golden Gloves boxer from Quincy, Massachusetts; for dressing up as a priest and then proceeding to get into a fight at a Jewish deli.

Many gawked at his start of a career on Wall Street without a financial background — but instead with an intelligent, impish smile, love for the spoken word, irreverent sense of humor, and stunning blue eyes that could make anyone fall in love with him.

As much as people knew hanging out with him would end in a night in jail or a killer screwdriver hangover, he was the type of man that people would drive 16 hours at the drop of a dime to come see.

He lived 1000 years in the 67 calendar years we had with him because he attacked life; he grabbed it by the lapels, kissed it, and swung it back onto the dance floor.

At the age of 26 he planned to circumnavigate the world — instead, he ended up spending 40 hours on a life raft off the coast of Panama.

In 1974, he founded the Quincy Rugby Club. In his thirties, he sustained a knife wound after saving a woman from being mugged in New York City.

He didn’t slow down: at age 64, he climbed to the base camp of Mount Everest. Throughout his life, he was an accomplished hunter and birth control device tester (with some failures, notably Caitlin Connors, 33; Chris Connors, 11; and Liam Connors, 8).

He was a rare combination of someone who had a love of life and a firm understanding of what was important — the simplicity of living a life with those you love.

Although he threw some of the most memorable parties during the greater half of a century, he would trade it all for a night in front of the fire with his family in Maine.

His acute awareness of the importance of a life lived with the ones you love over any material possession was only handicapped by his territorial attachment to the remote control of his Sonos music.

Chris enjoyed cross dressing, a well-made fire, and mashed potatoes with lots of butter. His regrets were few, but include eating a rotisserie hot dog from an unmemorable convenience store in the summer of 1986.

Of all the people he touched, both willing and unwilling, his most proud achievement in life was marrying his wife Emily Ayer Connors who supported him in all his glory during his heyday, and lovingly supported him physically during their last days together.

Absolut vodka and Simply Orange companies are devastated by the loss of Connors. A “Celebration of Life” will be held during Happy Hour (4 p.m.) at York Harbor Inn on Monday, December 19.

Obituary For Harry Weathersby Stamps

Amanda Lewis, Harry Stamp’s daughter, decided to giver her dad a send-off with a touching obituary that will be remembered for quite some time.

Harry was locally sourcing his food years before chefs in California starting using cilantro and arugula (both of which he hated).

For his signature bacon and tomato sandwich, he procured 100% all white Bunny Bread from Georgia, Blue Plate mayonnaise from New Orleans, Sauer’s black pepper from Virginia, home grown tomatoes from outside Oxford, and Tennessee’s Benton bacon from his bacon-of-the-month subscription.

As a point of pride, he purported to remember every meal he had eaten in his 80 years of life.

The women in his life were numerous. He particularly fancied smart women. He loved his mom Wilma Hartzog (deceased), who with the help of her sisters and cousins in New Hebron reared Harry after his father Walter’s death when Harry was 12.

He worshipped his older sister Lynn Stamps Garner (deceased), a character in her own right, and her daughter Lynda Lightsey of Hattiesburg.

He married his main squeeze Ann Moore, a home economics teacher, almost 50 years ago, with whom they had two girls Amanda Lewis of Dallas, and Alison of Starkville.

He taught them to fish, to select a quality hammer, to love nature, and to just be thankful. He took great pride in stocking their tool boxes. One of his regrets was not seeing his girl, Hillary Clinton, elected President.

He had a life-long love affair with deviled eggs, Lane cakes, boiled peanuts, Vienna [Vi-e-na] sausages on saltines, his homemade canned fig preserves, pork chops, turnip greens, and buttermilk served in martini glasses garnished with cornbread.

He excelled at growing camellias, rebuilding houses after hurricanes, rocking, eradicating mole crickets from his front yard, composting pine needles, living within his means, outsmarting squirrels, never losing a game of competitive sickness, and reading any history book he could get his hands on.

He loved to use his oversized “old man” remote control, which thankfully survived Hurricane Katrina, to flip between watching The Barefoot Contessa and anything on The History Channel.

He took extreme pride in his two grandchildren Harper Lewis (8) and William Stamps Lewis (6) of Dallas for whom he would crow like a rooster on their phone calls.

As a former government and sociology professor for Gulf Coast Community College, Harry was thoroughly interested in politics and religion and enjoyed watching politicians act like preachers and preachers act like politicians.

He was fond of saying a phrase he coined “I am not running for political office or trying to get married” when he was  “speaking the truth.”

He also took pride in his service during the Korean conflict, serving the rank of corporal — just like Napolean, as he would say.

Harry took fashion cues from no one. His signature every day look was all his: a plain pocketed T-shirt designed by the fashion house Fruit of the Loom, his black-label elastic waist shorts worn above the navel and sold exclusively at the Sam’s on Highway 49, and a pair of old school Wallabees (who can even remember where he got those?) that were always paired with a grass-stained MSU baseball cap.

Harry traveled extensively. He only stayed in the finest quality AAA-rated campgrounds, his favorite being Indian Creek outside Cherokee, North Carolina. He always spent the extra money to upgrade to a creek view for his tent. Many years later he purchased a used pop-up camper for his family to travel in style, which spoiled his daughters for life.

He despised phonies, his 1969 Volvo (which he also loved), know-it-all Yankees, Southerners who used the words “veranda” and “porte cochere” to put on airs, eating grape leaves, Law and Order (all franchises), cats, and Martha Stewart.

In reverse order. He particularly hated Day Light Saving Time, which he referred to as The Devil’s Time. It is not lost on his family that he died the very day that he would have had to spring his clock forward. This can only be viewed as his final protest.

Because of his irrational fear that his family would throw him a golf-themed funeral despite his hatred for the sport, his family will hold a private, family only service free of any type of “theme.”

Visitation will be held at Bradford-O’Keefe Funeral Home, 15th Street, Gulfport on Monday, March 11, 2013 from 6-8 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you make a donation to Mississippi Gulf Coast Community College (Jeff Davis Campus) for their library. Harry retired as Dean there and was very proud of his friends and the faculty. He taught thousands and thousands of Mississippians during his life.

The family would also like to thank the Gulfport Railroad Center dialysis staff who took great care of him and his caretaker Jameka Stribling.

Finally, the family asks that in honor of Harry that you write your Congressman and ask for the repeal of Day Light Saving Time. Harry wanted everyone to get back on the Lord’s Time.

Obituary For Jim Schinneller

The family of artist Jim Schinneller made his obituary funny by using an silly picture of the back of his head.  In a news interview , his family said:  “He liked to buck the system.  He enjoyed showing people how absurd life was.”

Loving father of Jim Jr. (Judy), Nancy (Dennis) Barkow, Diane (Al) Colla and Dave (Amy) Schinneller. Stepfather of Erick, Jeff and Brian Skarvan.

Proud grandfather of Jackie (Jeremy), Jamie (Sam), Jon, Amber and Misty. Great-grandfather of Jackson and Ethan.

Brother of Mary Agnes Benson and the late John Schinneller. Further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

James will be fondly remembered by family and friends as a loving father, distinguished professor of fine arts, published author, humorist, environmentalist, champion of social consciousness, proud patriot and US Navy veteran.

Obituary For William Ralph “Bill” Fink

Bill’s younger brother Mathew, and two of his close friends, wrote this comical and tech-laden obituary celebrating his life as a computer programmer.

Let it be known that on this cycle, program William Ralph “Bill” Fink, 46, of Belleville, IL, born July 28, 1969, in Belleville, IL, encountered an unhandled exception in his core operating system, which prematurely triggered a critical STOP condition on Wednesday, December 16, 2015.

Bill was an avid technophile, program developer, and educator, whose master functions were harnessed by Microsoft Corp. as a technical evangelist. 

Some of Bill’s most impactful component subroutines centered around video games, coaching youth sports, building elaborate displays for Halloween, and spending time with family.

Bill is survived in legacy by his wife, Rhonda Michele, nee Gardiner, Fink of Belleville, IL; his children, Cassidy Gardiner and William John Fink of Belleville, IL; his parents, William and Nancy, nee Kaiser, Fink of Las Vegas, NV; his brothers, Michael and Matthew (Kelly) Fink of Las Vegas, NV; and a host of loving in-laws, nieces and nephews, cousins, and longtime friends from around the world.

Memorials may be made to the family, c/o Rhonda Fink.  Condolences may be expressed to the family online at www.rennerfh.com.

Diagnostics indicated multiple cascading hardware failures as the root problem. 

Though his hardware has been decommissioned, Bill’s application has been migrated to the Cloud and has been repurposed to run in a virtual machine on an infinite loop. 

Obituary Examples For Soldiers

Obituary for john a. hottell.

This self-penned obituary was written by a man who spent many happy years being part of the army.  He says it “ it nurtured me, and it gave me the most satisfying years of my life”.

I am writing my own obituary for several reasons, and I hope none of them are too trite.

First, I would like to spare my friends, who may happen to read this, the usual clichés about being a good soldier. They were all kind enough to me and I not enough to them.

Second, I would not want to be a party to perpetuation of an image that is harmful and inaccurate: “glory” is the most meaningless of concepts, and I feel that in some cases it is doubly damaging.

And thirdly, I am quite simply the last authority on my own death.

I loved the Army: it reared me, it nurtured me, and it gave me the most satisfying years of my life. Thanks to it I have lived an entire lifetime in 26 years. It is only fitting that I should die in its service. We all have but one death to spend, and insofar as it can have any meaning it finds it in the service of comrades-in-arms.

And yet, I deny that I died FOR anything – not my Country, not my Army, not my fellow man, none of these things. I LIVED for these things, and the manner in which I chose to do it involved the very real chance that I would die in the execution of my duties.

I knew this, and accepted it, but my love for West Point and the Army was great enough – and the promise that I would someday be able to serve all the ideals that meant anything to me through it was great enough – for me to accept this possibility as a part of a price which must be paid for all things of great value. If there is nothing worth dying for – in this sense – there is nothing worth living for.

The Army let me live in Japan, Germany, and England with experiences in all of these places that others only dream about. I have skied in the Alps, killed a scorpion in my tent camping in Turkey, climbed Mount Fuji, visited the ruins of Athens, Ephesus, and Rome, seen the town of Gordium where another Alexander challenged his destiny, gone to the Opera in Munich, plays in the West End of London, seen the Oxford- Cambridge rugby match, gone for pub crawls through the Cotswolds, seen the night-life in Hamburg, danced to the Rolling Stones, and earned a master’s degree in a foreign university.

I have known what it is like to be married to a fine and wonderful woman and to love her beyond bearing with the sure knowledge that she loves me; I have commanded a company and been a father, priest, income-tax advisor, confessor, and judge for 200 men at one time; I have played college football and rugby, won the British National Diving Championship two years in a row, boxed for Oxford against Cambridge only to be knocked out in the first round and played handball to distraction – and all of these sports I loved, I learned at West Point. They gave me hours of intense happiness.

I have been an exchange student at the German Military Academy, and gone to the German Jumpmaster School, I have made thirty parachute jumps from everything from a balloon in England to a jet at Fort Bragg. I have written an article that was published in Army magazine, and I have studied philosophy.

I have experienced all these things because I was in the Army and because I was an Army brat. The Army is my life, it is such a part of what I was that what happened is the logical outcome of the life I lived.

I never knew what it is to fail, I never knew what it is to be too old or too tired to do anything. I lived a full life in the Army, and it has exacted the price. It is only just.

Obituary For Arielle Keyes-Oliver

This obituary is an example of how to honour a young woman who had recently joined the military.

Passed away tragically, at CFB Petawawa on Saturday, October 25th, 2008 at 19 years of age.

Arielle is sadly missed by her loving parents, Diane and David; her beloved sister Tressa; cherished grandparents, Ken and Catherine Richardson of Cambridge, Doug and Eileen Oliver of Grey County, and her special friend Antoine Trabulsi. She will be forever remembered by her many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Arielle was born in Cambridge, graduated from KCI in Kitchener and was attending Carleton University in Ottawa. Among her many interests were music, horseback riding and kickboxing. Arielle was a Sea Cadet at #94 Warspite in Kitchener for five years and next month would have been her two year anniversary in the Army. She attained her Gunner?s Hat Badge this past summer. Arielle was involved in three regiments, the Highland Fusiliers of Cambridge, and the 11th and 30th Field Regiments of the Royal Canadian Artillery.

Friends are invited to share their memories of Arielle with her family during visitation at the Erb & Good Family Funeral Home, 171 King Street South, Waterloo, on Thursday, October 30, from 2-4 and 7-9 pm and Friday, October 31 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm. The funeral service will be held at Waterloo Pentecostal Assembly, 395 King Street North, Waterloo on Saturday, November 1, 2008 at 11:00 am. Interment will follow at Parkview Cemetery, Waterloo.

Condolences for the family and donations to a Memorial Scholarship Fund in Arielle’s name at Carleton Unversity may be arranged by calling the funeral home at 519-745-8445 or www.erbgood.com or on-line www.carleton.ca/giving

In living memory of Arielle, a donation will be made to the Trees for Learning Program by the funeral home.

Obituary For Bill Speakman

This obituary example shines light on years of service and sacrifice as a soldier.

War broke out in divided Korea in June 1950, when the communist north invaded the western-backed south by crossing the 38th parallel of latitude which was the provisional border between them.

Korea, a Japanese colony since 1910, was divided in 1945 between the Soviet Union in the north and US forces in the south.

Protracted negotiations failed to reunify the two segments and the north made its bid to overrun the south. At first the massed northern troops carried all before them and all but expelled the smaller, ill-prepared southern army and its US reinforcements from the entire peninsula.

But the American General Douglas MacArthur was appointed commander-in-chief of UN forces in Korea in July and led a daring counterattack. A temporary boycott of the UN security council meant there could be no Soviet veto of the American proposal for UN intervention. British and Commonwealth units with other allied troops joined in. The US Marines made a bold amphibious landing at Incheon, near the southern capital of Seoul, and allied forces then advanced north to the Chinese border, whereupon the Chinese army entered the war and forced them back to the 38th parallel.

It was during one of many large-scale counterattacks by the Chinese during this to-and-fro phase that Private Speakman, a Black Watch soldier temporarily attached to the 1st battalion of the King’s Own Scottish Borderers, was acting as a runner for B company, positioned on a ridge known as Hill 217 at the beginning of November 1951.

The battalion came under fierce artillery fire in its exposed position. The Chinese then sent in 6,000 infantry troops, advancing in waves on B company. At dusk the company’s position looked hopeless, but Speakman, who was imposing and well-built at 6ft 6in tall, decided otherwise. Filling his pouches and all available pockets with the hand grenades he had been priming, he rose to his feet. Asked where he thought he was going, Speakman was reported as saying, in contemporary speech: “I’m going to shift some of them bloody Chinks.”

Standing in the dark, he pelted the attackers with grenade after grenade, aiming at their rifle flashes, pausing only to return to refill his pockets. Inspired by his actions, six men then joined him in a concerted drive to clear the ridge of the enemy.

It seemed only a bullet could stop the furious defender. Yet even that was insufficient: he was indeed shot – in a leg and again in the shoulder – but, directly ordered to seek medical help, he went back to the fight when the medics were not looking. His rage reached new heights when a medic treating a comrade was shot and killed. He and his friends were finally reduced to throwing stones, ration tins and even, the legend has it, beer bottles (their contents had been used to cool gun barrels) before a final charge cleared the ridge and the remnants of the company could withdraw.

The citation for the VC said he had imposed enormous losses on the enemy and saved the lives of many of his comrades as they withdrew. It was the first such award to be presented by the Queen, shortly after she came to the throne.

Bill was born in Altrincham, Cheshire (now Greater Manchester) to Hannah Speakman, an unmarried domestic servant; he never knew his father and she never named him. About seven years later she married Herbert Houghton, a veteran of the first world war, who became his stepfather. Bill left Wellington Road secondary school in Timperley aged 14 and held various ordinary jobs before volunteering for the Scottish Black Watch regiment at the age of 17 near the end of the second world war, seeing service in Germany, Italy and Hong Kong. Returning to Germany in 1950, he volunteered for Korea and was detached to the King’s Own Scottish Borderers.

A month after he received his VC, Speakman returned to Korea at his own request, to get away from all the adulation. Demobilised in 1953, the year the Korean war ended in an armistice, he could not settle down to civilian life without qualifications and volunteered for the army again, to fight the communist insurrection in Malaya. In 1955 he served for a short period with the SAS, rejoining the King’s Own Scottish Borderers when they arrived in Malaya and rising to his final rank of sergeant.

He left the army after 22 years in 1968, the year following his arrest in Edinburgh for stealing £104 from a woman’s purse. He received an absolute discharge after repaying the stolen sum in full: his decoration probably saved him from prison.

Once again unable to settle down into civilian life, the “beer-bottle VC” tried various jobs, sold his medals to raise money, and was married and divorced three times, fathering seven children, all of whom survive him.

He emigrated to South Africa, called himself Speakman-Pitt for a while, returned to Britain and spent a year as a pensioner at the Royal Hospital, Chelsea, before going back to South Africa for a second time. Eventually he returned to Altrincham before retiring permanently as a Chelsea pensioner in 2015.

Obituary For Joy Lofthouse

This is an obituary of a woman who lived an extraordinary life.  She was one of 164 female pilots during the second world war.  It’s a fascinating example of an obituary for a member of the military.

As a result she went on to become one of 164 female pilots during the second world war who were given the important job of ferrying military planes around the UK from one air base to another.

Lofthouse, who has died aged 94, showed great aptitude for flying. Her first solo flight was in a Miles Magister, an open, low-winged monoplane. After qualifying, her initial work focused on delivering Magisters and Tiger Moth biplanes to flying schools. Later she moved on to fighter planes, including Spitfires.

She was born Joyce Gough, always known as Joy, in Cirencester, Gloucestershire. Her father was a professional footballer who later became a hairdresser, and her mother was a dressmaker. Educated at Cirencester grammar school, both Joy and her older sister, Yvonne, were dedicated to sport in general and to tennis in particular. Joy began working in the local Lloyds bank just as war broke out.

But she had greater ambitions than to be a cashier, and sought inspiration in the pages of the Aeroplane magazine, the journal whose then editor had proclaimed that “the menace is the woman who thinks she ought to be flying a high-speed bomber when she really has not the intelligence to scrub the floor of a hospital properly”.

When Joy applied to the ATA she had no idea that Yvonne had also put in an application, just before her. Both were successful and served together until the end of the war.

As a flying member of the female section of the ATA – which also had 1,153 men in its employ – Lofthouse was one of what the press liked to call the Attagirls, working on pay rates equal to those of the men. That there was a women’s section and that it attracted pilots from around the world was substantially due to the efforts, before and during the war, of their senior commander, Pauline Gower.

The pilots’ work expanded rapidly from the transport of medical supplies and personnel to ferrying fighters and bombers to bases around the country. For Lofthouse this meant a posting to Hamble, near Southampton, in 1944.

Alongside workaday aircraft she also flew more spectacular machines. There were Hawker Tempest Vs, North American Mustangs and Supermarine Spitfires, all 400mph fighters. She flew a total of 18 types of aircraft – relying on a map and the view out of the cockpit for navigation – but the Spitfire was her enduring favourite.

By 1945 she completed training for twin-engined planes, only to quit the ATA after the end of the war; it was wound up that November.

In 1946 EC Cheeseman’s book, Brief Glory: The Story of ATA, was published, listing, on page 230, “Third Officer Gough, Joyce, Miss”. But jobs for women pilots were then practically nonexistent, and she had to turn to other things.

After the war she married Jiri Hartman, a Czech Spitfire pilot whom she had first encountered while working at Lloyds. The marriage ended in divorce in 1966.

Two years later, while training to become a teacher in Portsmouth, she met Charles Lofthouse, a former bomber pilot who had been held at Stalag Luft III prison camp in what is now Poland, where he had worked on preparations for the 1944 Great Escape.

They married in 1971, by which time he was a headteacher and she was teaching children with special needs.

It was only towards the end of the 20th century that the scale of the achievement of women such as Lofthouse began to be appreciated. Throughout her life she retained her links with her former female comrades in the ATA and attended many reunions.

In 1990 she met young women aspiring to be RAF pilots at Biggin Hill, and in 2008 she was a recipient of a commemorative badge for the Attagirls issued by the government. She was also a patron of the Fly2Help charity, which encourages young people to take up flying.

In 2015, at Goodwood in Sussex, she took to the air in a (dual-control) Spitfire for the first time in 70 years.

She and Charles retired to Cirencester. He died in 2002. She is survived by a son, Peter, and a daughter, Lyn, from her first marriage, and a grandson. Another son from that marriage, Michael, died in 2008.

Obituary For Harold Thomas Bushey Sr.

This example of an obituary for a soldier is uplifting and speaks to a life well-lived.

After serving during war, many veterans find themselves eager to return to civilian life and move on from their experiences as quickly as possible.

But not Harold Bushey.

After he returned from World War II, the 98-year-old Mt. Lebanon resident built a life around helping other veterans and continuing his service.

Mr. Bushey, the longtime director of the Veterans Administration Regional Office in Pittsburgh, died Friday, surrounded by his family in hospice care.

“My father was such a positive man, he was making plans up till the end,” said his daughter, Kathleen Prentiss, 67, of Mt. Lebanon.

Born in Harlem, New York City, Mr. Bushey moved as a child with his family to the north shore of Long Island, where his father found work as a butcher. After graduating from high school, he went to work at a movie theater before being drafted into the Army in 1941.

As a young sergeant major, Mr. Bushey was stationed aboard the ships Queen Mary and Queen Elizabeth as they transported thousands of troops to Europe for the war effort.

After the war, he contemplated whether to return as manager of the theater — where his job was waiting.

“He was the youngest manager of the theater and when he was drafted, they sent him money and saved his job,” Mrs. Prentiss said. “They hoped he would come back after the war.”

The decision was complicated by his new role as husband and father.

During leave in 1942, Mr. Bushey met Marylynn Basuino, whom he married in May 1943. The couple had been married for 57 years in 2000, when Mrs. Bushey died.

“He went to a USO dance and when he walked into the club, one of my mother’s sisters whistled at him,” Mrs. Prentiss said. “That’s how they met.”

Acting on the advice of a fellow soldier, Mr. Bushey applied for a federal job and was accepted by the VA office in Pittsburgh.

“He got the job in Pittsburgh and my mom cried like crazy,” when they decided to move away, Mrs. Prentiss said.

The Busheys bought a home in Dormont, where they raised four children, before moving to Mt. Lebanon in 1965.

In the meantime, Mr. Bushey enlisted in the Army Reserve and took advantage of the GI Bill to go to night school and earn a bachelor’s degree at the University of Pittsburgh, followed by a master’s degree in business administration. He also taught as an adjunct professor at Pitt’s Graduate School of Public and International Affairs.

Mr. Bushey served in the reserves until 1981 and twice was awarded the Legion of Merit for meritorious conduct — first during WWII and again after his retirement from the reserves.

At the VA, Mr. was personnel manager before being promoted to director in 1971 — a post he held until his retirement in 1997.

In that role, Mr. Bushey was recognized with many awards — his daughter said they filled two rooms in his home — but his proudest moments were probably off the radar, said friend and colleague Jerry Serrino of North Strabane.

“I was a personnel trainee at the VA Medical Center when we met,” said Mr. Serrino, who knew Mr. Bushey for 47 years — 28 of them spent working with him. “I wrote a paper on Affirmative Action and he was a pioneer in that effort within the federal government. He was doing it before there was a hard push to do it.”

During the Kennedy administration, Mr. Bushey was sent to Southern states to help them implement John F. Kennedy’s 1961 executive order requiring government contractors to hire people “without regard to their race, creed, color, or national origin.”

“My father was sent to make sure [minorities] were being treated fairly,” Mrs. Prentiss said. “And he was warned of the danger.”

Mr. Bushey also worked locally to ensure fair hiring practices within his own office, sometimes bending the rules to hire qualified African-Americans.

“When we would have a vacancy he was always looking to see if we could get a minority,” Mr. Serrino said. “Even when there weren’t vacancies, he would circumvent the system to fit them into jobs. Because he did these things, he developed a reputation in the community, and people saw that it wasn’t just lip service.”

He also worked with leaders in the local black community to help applicants navigate the often cumbersome application process for a federal job, and kept an off-the-books list of how many minorities were hired by various departments in his office.

“It really concerned him, that everybody should have equal opportunity,” Mr. Serrino said. “He was one of the best people I’ve ever known.”

His secret to a long and happy life was simple, Mrs. Prentiss said.

“Martinis and positive thinking,” she said.

Along with his daughter, Mr. Bushey is survived by a son, Tom Bushey, of Imperial; eight grandchildren; 11 great-grandchildren; and a great-great-grandchild.

He was preceded in death by a daughter Claudia Bushey King; and a son, Michael Damian Bushey.

Visitation is from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at Beinhauer Funeral Home, 2630 W. Liberty Ave., Dormont. The funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. Thursday at St. Winifred Church, 550 Sleepy Hollow Road, Mt. Lebanon. Interment with full military honors will immediately follow at Queen of Heaven Cemetery in Peters.

The family suggests donations be made to the USO at uso.org/donate.

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Obituary for toni alice conley hamm.

This is a wonderful example of an obituary that highlights a mother’s and grandmother’s love for her family.

Mrs. Toni Alice Conley Hamm, age 79, of Morehead, passed away Friday evening, February 23, 2018, at her residence.

She was born March 20, 1938, in Carter County, a daughter of the late Luther and Nancy Jane Sparks Conley.

Alice was preceded in death by her husband of 62 years, Willie Hamm; three sons, Mike Hamm, Robbie Hamm, and Harold Hamm; two daughters, Frances Jane Jones and Freda Mae Hamm; three grandchildren, Brent Carter, Willie Joe Hamm and Avery Hamm; one brother, Roy Conley; and five sisters, Dorothy Sue Newell, Della Mae Lewis, Helen Brown, Opal Conley and Nellie Patrick.

She was a member of Haldeman Church of God, and a homemaker.  She enjoyed arts, crafts and spending time with her children and grandchildren.

Alice is survived by four sons and two daughters-in-law, Timothy Joe Hamm (Janie) of Morehead, Clarence Edgar Hamm of Soldier, Ben Casey Hamm (Janet) of Owingsville, and Jessie Ray Hamm of Soldier; five daughters and one son-in-law, Sharon Jane Hamm of Olive Hill, Carol Hamm of Morehead, Loretta Lynn Herron of Grayson, Mabel Pelfrey of Soldier, and Tina Walton (Bobby) of Soldier; several grandchildren; several great grandchildren; and one sister, Louise Bowling of Anderson, Indiana. She also leaves many other family members and friends who will sadly miss her.

Funeral service will be held 2 p.m. Tuesday, February 27, 2018, at Globe Funeral Chapel in Olive Hill, with Brother Don Rivers and Brother Bobby Day officiating. Burial will follow in the Hamm Cemetery in Soldier.

Visitation is from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m. Monday, February 26, 2018 and after 9 a.m. on Tuesday, at the funeral home.

Alice’s family will serve as pallbearers.

Condolences may be sent to the family at www.globefc.com.

Obituary For Kathleen Mary Jiles

Have you been tasked with writing an obituary for a mother and grandmother?  This is a fine example that you can take inspiration from.

Mom, Grandma, Auntie Kay, passed away peacefully at Delta Hospital at the age of 93 years.

Born and raised in Regina, Sask., she lived in small town Milestone eventually moving westward to Ladner, B.C. in 1973.

Mom was wonderfully devoted to her 7 children David (Carol), Mary Ellen (Denny), Arleen (Rob), Kathy (Neil), Patty (Peter), Mark (Marie Claude) and Laureen.

She was a loving Grandmother to Ally, Taylor, Davis, Raeleen, Ross, Andrea, Ellee, Jaideen, Jared, Alyssa, Kaylyn, and Sara and an Aunt to numerous nieces and nephews.

Our mother was busy, raising children, volunteering at the church and eventually going back to work.

She spent 33 years with the Royal Bank, finishing her career at the Tsawwassen branch, where she was well known and admired.

In her retirement, she was active with the Royal Bank pensioners, organizing their annual Christmas lunch.

Mom was a sports and music enthusiast watching her children and grandchildren on the playing fields, ice rinks and theatres. She was a loyal Saskatchewan Roughriders fan.

Mom was a devoted but questioning Roman Catholic, who spent countless hours volunteering at Sacred Heart Parish.

She led by example. There was never a job too large or too small that she would not tackle.

Mom was a strong, determined and fiercely independent woman. We will miss her every day.

Special thanks to the wonderful doctors and nurses at Delta Hospital and to our sisters Mary Ellen and Arleen who provided invaluable care to Mom for many years.

A private family memorial will be held at Gardens of Gethsemani.

Obituary For Pearl Greenberg

We love this obituary of an extraordinary woman who was “always intellectually ahead of her time, and a forward thinker.”  If your loved one who has just passed was also extraordinary, use this obituary as an example of how to acknowledge her (or his) accomplishments.

At the age of 98, Loving Mother to five children – Sheila Greenberg Smith (deceased – Walter Saltzberg, deceased), Alan Greenberg (Karen Somerville), Jan Greenberg Jones, Lisa Greenberg Shipley, Mischa (Ruth) Greenberg.

Predeceased by father I. Lewis Cohen, mother Anne Cohen and brothers Ivan and George.

Beloved Bubby to 7 grandchildren and 11 great-grandchildren.

Pearl was always intellectually ahead of her time, and a forward thinker. She was a political activist and held many global views. Along with her parents she was instrumental in helping to establish the CCF political party (now the NDP).

Pearl was an avid bridge teacher and bridge player. Pearl was recipient of the Volunteer of the Year award from Jewish Family Services.

She will be missed by family and numerous friends.

A special thank you to Sophia Morabe for your loving kindness and caring of Pearl.

Graveside service will be held on Tuesday July 17, 1:00, at Jewish Memorial Gardens, 2692 Bank Street. Shiva will be held on Tuesday July 17 from 7:00-9:00 p.m. and Wednesday, July 18 from 2-4 and 7-9 at 824 Iroquois Rd.

Donations to Jewish Family Services www.jfsottawa.com or Feeding Program at Hillel Lodge www.hillel-ltc.com will be gratefully appreciated.

Obituary For Dr. Leila Denmark

Here’s another example of an obituary for an extraordinary woman.  Not only was Dr. Leila Denmark a retired paediatrician at the time of her death, she was also a beloved mother and grandmother.

Dr. Leila Daughtry Denmark, retired paediatrician and one of the world’s oldest people, died April 1, 2012 at the home of her daughter in Athens, Georgia.

Dr. Denmark was born on February 1, 1898 in Portal, GA in Bulloch County, the third of the twelve children of Elerbee and Alice Hendricks Daughtry.

She was predeceased by her husband, John Eustace Denmark; sisters, Eva, Myrtice, Ruth, Pearl, and Kathleen; and brothers, Arthur, Grady, Reedy, Clyde, Curtis, and George.

Dr. Denmark completed high school at the First District A and M School in Statesboro, now Georgia Southern University. She attended Bessie Tift College and graduated in 1922 and did further college work at Mercer University.

Following two years of teaching high school science, she enrolled in the Medical College of the University of Georgia, now the Medical College of Georgia, receiving her M.D. degree there in 1928.

Shortly after graduation she married Mr. Denmark and moved to Atlanta where, following some volunteer work in hospital wards at Grady Hospital and at the Central Presbyterian Church Baby Clinic, she became the first resident of the newly opened Henrietta Egleston Hospital for Children, now Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta, and admitted its first patient.

Following the birth of her daughter, Mary, Dr. Denmark opened her practice of pediatrics in her home in Atlanta in 1931 and continued in practice until her retirement in 2001 at the age of 103.

At the time of her retirement she was the oldest practicing physician in the United States.

Besides her devotion to her patients over a period of more than seventy years, Dr. Denmark enjoyed her family, going to the opera, gardening, sewing, reading, and he occasional game of golf.

Over the years Dr. Denmark received a number of awards and some of these are the Fisher Award in 1935 for outstanding research in diagnosis, treatment, and immunization of whooping cough; selection as Atlanta’s Woman of the Year in 1953; alumni awards from Tift College, Mercer University, Georgia Southern and the Medical College of Georgia; honorary degrees from Tift College, Mercer University, and Emory University; the Shining Light Award from Atlanta Gas Light Company; and the Lifetime Achievement Award from the Atlanta Business Chronicle.

Dr. Denmark was a member of the American Medical Association, the Georgia Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics, and Druid Hills Baptist Church in Atlanta.

In the early 1970s Dr. Denmark published a book setting down her ideas on the care and rearing of children, Every Child Should Have a Chance, now in its fourteenth printing.

Survivors include a daughter, Mary Denmark Hutcherson of Athens; two grandsons and their wives: Steven and Stephanie Hutcherson of Atlanta, and James and Karen Hutcherson of Evergreen, Colorado; and two great-grandchildren, Jake and Hayden Hutcherson of Evergreen.

Funeral services will be on Thursday, April 5 at 1 p.m. at the First United Methodist Church in Athens with burial in the Portal Cemetery on Friday, April 6 at 11 a.m.

The family will receive friends from 6 p.m. until 9 p.m. at the funeral home on Wednesday, April 4, and immediately following the service on Thursday.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that memorial gifts may be made to Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta Foundation, 1687 Tullie Circle, NE, Atlanta, GA 30329, or to the Medical College of Georgia Foundation, 1120 15th Street, Augusta, GA 30912.

For further information about Dr. Denmark, go to her website, www.drleiladenmark.com. Lord & Stephens East Chapel is in charge of arrangements.

Obituary For Margaret Blomfield Kent

This obituary example highlights this grandmother’s volunteer work in the community.  She lived to 100 years of age, and credited her longevity to starting the day with oatmeal and ending the day with wine!

Margaret Blomfield Kent, known as Peggy, passed away peacefully on May 16th in Orlando, Florida, where she had been hospitalized just weeks after her 100th birthday.

Peggy was born in Norwich, England, was raised there and served as a member of the British Red Cross during WWII. She lived in Paris briefly after the War and then moved to the United States, where she was married and lived most of her life.

She lived in Fairfield County, Connecticut, where she raised two children and was active in community theatre and various volunteer activities.

She then spent nearly 20 years in Cincinnati, Ohio, where she became a familiar face as a regular and frequent volunteer at the Cincinnati Art Museum.

She relocated to Florida in 2013 to be near her daughter.

Throughout her life Peggy was devoted to animals, particularly those without homes, and she was active as a rescue volunteer and animal caregiver well into her 90’s.

Despite having spent most of her life in the States, Peggy was devoted to Great Britain and never relinquished her UK citizenship.

At the celebration marking her 100th birthday last month, she explained how she believed her longevity was likely due to a faithful regimen of starting each day with oatmeal and ending each day with wine.

At the event, one of her granddaughters presented her with a personal letter and signed photograph from Queen Elizabeth II.

Peggy is survived by two children, Stephen Kent (Ginger) of Manhattan and Marjorie Kent of Taunton (Connecticut).

She is also survived by two grandchildren, Margaret Kent Edson (Christopher) and Stephanie Kent, as well as great-grandchild, Georgina Ladbrooke Edson.

Services will be private.

Obituary For Sara Shigley

We included this obituary in our collection of examples because it combines insights into this grandmother’s personality as well as her life history in a beautiful way.

Sara (Sally) McArthur Shigley, 60, reached the end of a valiant 29-year battle with recurring meningioma brain tumors on June 17, 2017.

In home hospice care since April, she inspired many with her positive, cheerful outlook in happy anticipation of heaven. Born in 1957 at Beaufort, SC, she grew up primarily at Sumter, SC.

Her father was school superintendent in both towns. As a high school senior she moved to Greenville, SC, when her father became a professor at Furman University.

After her graduation from Furman in 1979, Sally earned her Master of Arts in Teaching (MAT) degree at Emory University in 1982.

She taught at Tilson Elementary School, The Lovett School and at Dodgen Middle School. Due to effects of her second brain tumor surgery in 1992, she retired from teaching in the following year.

Prior to 1992, while teaching and mothering two young children, Sally was an energetic volunteer for Scottish Rite Children’s Hospital, Wesley Woods Retirement Center, Junior League and a battered womens’ hotline, played ALTA tennis, and taught preschool Sunday School.

In the years after becoming disabled, she grew flowers and her children, and faithfully participated in numerous activities at Peachtree Presbyterian Church — Presbyterian Women, Women’s Community Bible Study, Credence Sunday School Class, Minor Brain Injury Support Group, church library volunteers and teaching the Hope Class for mentally handicapped young adults.

Mrs. Shigley was predeceased by her father, Dr. Laurin Currie McArthur Jr. Survivors include her mother, Anne Barron McArthur, Columbia, SC; husband, Kenneth L. Shigley, Sr.; daughter Anne Shigley Noble (Steve), Meriden, NH; son Kenneth L. Shigley, Jr., Atlanta; two brothers, John B. McArthur (Barbara), Columbia, SC, and Rev. Laurin C. McArthur, Jr (Nancy), Roseland, NJ; brother-in-law Michael T. Shigley (Michelle), Silverdale, WA; four nephews, three nieces and many cousins.

The family expresses appreciation to members of the Credence Class, Presbyterian Women, home caregivers and hospice staff, and the many physicians who participated in her care since first diagnosis of a massive meningioma in 1988.

A celebration of life service will be held at Peachtree Presbyterian Church on Wednesday, June 21, 2017, at 1:00 P.M.

Obituary Examples For Grandfathers

Obituary for samuel lee stewart.

This obituary shares the life and beliefs of Samuel Stewart, a beloved father and grandfather.  It’s an excellent example of how to honour a man that was a pillar of his community and a strong foundation for his family.

Samuel L. Stewart (Womack), of Springville, Alabama passed away on Sunday August 18, 2013 after reaching the age of 92 years old. After months of failing health, he died peacefully within his home in Springville Alabama with his Beloved wife Iola and children (Jacqueline and Carl) by his side.

Samuel was born on July 21, 1921 in Greenville, AL to Essie Mae Crenshaw and Leeson Womack and was later adopted by James Stewart. As a boy he lived mostly on a plantation with his grandmother, working odd jobs to support himself and his family.

As a very young man he learned to work hard and to take on whatever job was available to support himself. He worked in ore mines, steel mills, oil refineries, blacksmith shops and farmed, if necessary.

He was an early entrepreneur and ran several “small businesses”, run out of everything from a friend’s garage, to a neighbor’s barn or even a make shift roadside stand.

In 1942, he met the love of his life, Iola Harris. They lived together almost inseparable for over 70 years. The early times were difficult financially; Samuel and Iola made many tough choices in those days, including leaving several of their children to be kept for a time in Springville by Samuel’s mother Essie Mae, while they made their way to Buffalo, NY.

While in Buffalo, Samuel worked many jobs, but primarily as a Crane Operator with Republic Steel. Along side him, Iola also worked many jobs but spent most of their working years together as a Beautician in the shop she owned on East Utica Avenue.

They lived in Buffalo in homes on Masten and Riley and together raised 8 children, living there for over 50 years. In 2002, they returned to Springville, Al to live on the land his mother left for him until his death.

He came to know Jehovah and dedicated his life in 1996 in Buffalo, NY. He believed in the resurrection hope and told others about God’s Kingdom.

Samuel loved music and played harmonica and guitar to entertain friends and family. Baseball was his one true sport. He loved to watch and even played catch with his sons and grandchildren. He loved to be with family and was always up for a picnic, reunion or gathering of friends.

He was a strong patriarch of his family, a good friend to all, a man who would give his shirt for a friend.

He was a good father who always took care of his children and did the best he could to teach and guide them, a loving grandfather and “great-grand” father to many.

A man who never cared much about himself and who even in his final days would say to his loved ones, “just to take care of “Ola” when I’m gone”.

Samuel was a strong, proud and good man. He is loved and will be missed by many!

He is preceded in death by parents, James Stewart, Essie Mae Crenshaw Northard and Leeson Womack; children, Samuel Stewart, Jr., Patricia Harmon, Henry Stewart and Cletus Stewart; grandchildren, Marie Harmon, Starlett Stewart, Justin Stewart and Samuel Stewart, III; brothers, Nolan Womack and Henry Womack; and sister, Lucia Womack.

Mr. Stewart is survived by loving wife, Iola Edna Stewart of Sringville, AL; children, Leon Stewart (Judith) of Dublin, GA, Jacqueline Jackson (Brian) of Seattle, WA, Carl Stewart of Buffalo, NY and Anthony Stewart (Carol) of Grand Rapids, MI; 36 Grandchildren; 40 Great Grandchildren; 4 Great Great Grandchildren; brother, Robert Womack of Ohio; a host of nieces, nephews and other beloved friends and relatives; and beloved extended family, Robert and Diane Harris.

A memorial service was held on Saturday, August 24, 2013 at 1PM from the Oneonta Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witness.

Obituary For Melvin Claytor

Mr. Claytor’s obituary is an excellent example that an obituary doesn’t have to be long in order to be effective.  This obituary highlights the accomplishments of this beloved father and grandfather.

He is survived by his wife of 30 years Alora Claytor, his children Andre Julian Claytor, Ashleigh Marie Claytor, and Seneca Cottom step children Paige Chatman, Alora Vitalis and Chantal Cox, loving niece Terry L. Claytor, beloved cousins Veronica Nannette White, Donna King and Michelle King and a host of cousins, nieces, nephews, grandchildren and his Buffalo Soldier Calvary Scout family.

Melvin was predeceased by his father William Henry Claytor, mother Agnes Marie Carter, brother and sisters, William Henry Claytor, Jr., Beryl Jean Rhodes, Vivienne Howard, and Cheryl Williams.

Memorial services will be held Saturday, June 16, 2018, 11:00AM at Zimmerman-Auer Funeral Home, Inc., 4100 Jonestown Road, Harrisburg, PA 17109.

Visitation will be held 10:00AM-11:00AM at the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, please send donations to Buffalo Soldiers Calvary Scouts Annual Children’s Toy Drive.

Arrangements by Cremation Society of Pennsylvania, Inc.

Obituary For Walter George Bruhl

This grandfather decided to write his own humorous obituary, ensuring that it expressed exactly what he wanted to be remembered for.

Walter George Bruhl Jr. of Newark and Dewey Beach DE is a dead person, he is no more, he is bereft of life, he is deceased, he has wrung down the curtain and gone to join the choir invisible, he has expired and gone to meet his maker. He drifted off this mortal coil on March 9, 2014 in Punta Gorda, Florida. His spirit was released from his worn out shell of a body and is now exploring the universe.

He was surrounded by his loving wife of 57 years, Helene Sellers Bruhl, who will now be able to purchase the mink coat which he had always refused her because he believed only minks should wear mink.

He is also survived by his son Walter III, wife Melissa, daughters Carly and Paige and son Martin, wife Debra, son Sam and daughter Kalla. Walt loved and enjoyed his grandkids.

Walt was preceded in death by his tonsils and adenoids in 1935, a spinal disc in 1974, a large piece of his thyroid gland in 1988, and his prostate on March 27th 2000.

He was born in Phila. PA. on April 20th 1933 at 10:38 PM and weighed in at a healthy 7lbs. 4oz. and was 22″ long, to Blanche Buckman Bruhl and Walter George Bruhl.

He drifted through the Philadelphia Public School System from 1937 through 1951, graduating, to his mother’s great relief, from John Bartram High School in June of 1951.

Walter was a Marine Corps Veteran of the Korean War having served from October of 1951 to September of 1954, with overseas duty in Japan from June of 1953 till August of 1954. He attained the rank of Sergeant.

He chose this path because of Hollywood propaganda, to which he succumbed as a child during WW II, and his cousin Ella who joined the corps in 1943.

He served an electronics apprenticeship at the Phila. Naval Yard from 1956 till 1961, operated Atlantic Automotive Service Stations in Wilmington during 1961 and 1962 and was employed by the late great DuPont Co. from 1962 thru 1993 (very few people who knew him would say he worked for DuPont, and he always claimed he had only been been hired to fill a position).

He started at the Chestnut Run Site as a flunky in the weave area of the Textile Fibers Dept., and then was promoted to research assistant, where he stayed from 1963 thru 1972.

In 1972 he accepted a position as an equipment service representative with the Photo Products Dept. at the old DuPont Airport Site (now Barley Mill Plaza).

In 1973 he was promoted to Manufacturing Engineering Technologist and was employed in that capacity until, after 31 years with The Co., he was given a fine anniversary dinner and a token gift and then ‘“downsized” in Dec. of 1993.

He was rehired as a contract employee in June of 1994, doing the same job that he had been ‘downsized’ from, and stayed until July of 1995.  

He started his own contract business and worked at Litho Tech Ltd. from 1996 till 1999.

There will be no viewing since his wife refuses to honor his request to have him standing in the corner of the room with a glass of Jack Daniels in his hand so that he would appear natural to visitors.

Cremation will take place at the families convenience and his ashes will be kept in an urn until they get tired of having it around.

What’s a Grecian Urn? Oh, about 200 drachmas a week.

Everyone who remembers him is asked to celebrate Walt’s life in their own way, raising a glass of their favorite drink in his memory would be quite appropriate.

Instead of flowers, Walt would hope that you will do an unexpected and unsolicited act of kindness for some poor unfortunate soul in his name.

A memorial luncheon in Walt’s honor will be held on Saturday, March 15, 2014 at 1PM at Deerfield, Newark, DE.

Obituary For George Boivin

This example is another obituary that is self-penned.  (In our experience, people who write their own obituaries tend to be very funny people, who want to ensure that their final tribute causes smiles and laughter.)

I have prepaid my funeral and decided that I would write my own obituary.

I am going to be cremated and my ashes will be buried in the family plot in the Forest Hill Cemetery in Madison, ME with my wife and daughter.

There will be no church, funeral or memorial service.

If you would like to honor my memory, take a close friend or relative out for coffee, lunch or dinner and SMILE, I will be there.

I have dedicated my retirement to making people smile. To do this I tell them I am going to use ESP to program their mind to smile every time they see my face.

As I will no longer be around, I have found a highly qualified replacement; every time you see his face you will think of ‘George’ and smile.

PICTURE HERE A YELLOW SMILEY FACE

P.S. You have been programmed.

Obituary For D. Clem Henderson

This is an example of an obituary for a man who loved his family, especially his grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and the simple things in life.

It is with great sadness we announce the passing of Clem Henderson at the Kingston General Hospital on Sunday, August 5, 2018 after a severe stroke. Clem was in his 85th year.

Beloved husband and best friend of the late Beverly Henderson (nee Arnold).

Loving father of Cheryl Henderson, David (Darlene) Henderson , Tom (Debbie) Henderson and Shelley Ferguson.

He was the proud grandfather to Ryan Henderson, Brittany and Brooke Henderson, Cy (Amy) and Casandra (Riley) Ferguson and proud great-grandpa to Quinn, Blakely and Callie.

Dear brother-in-law of Bob (Bev Bennett) Arnold, Mary Lee (Kieth) Drummond and Bill (Jeanette) Arnold.

He was the son of the late Mary and Ken Henderson of Carleton Place, predeceased by sister Diana Fox (Morley) and his sister-in-law Brenda Arnold (Barry Begley).

Fondly remembered by his many nieces, nephews, cousins extended family and many good friends.

Clem alongside his beloved Beverly owned the Hobby Shop & Variety Centre for over 40 years.

He was a quiet and kind gentleman holding the highest integrity in business and in family life.

He loved going to the racetrack in the early years and really enjoyed it with the modern facility combined with a good meal and the slots at the casino.

He liked watching a good hockey game, catching Lawrence Welk on Saturday nights and loved following Brittany and Brooke’s journey on the LPGA.

Clem was above all passionate and proud of all of his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Family and friends may pay their respects at the Blair & Son Funeral Home, 112 Beckwith St. N., Smiths Falls on Wednesday, August 8, 2018 from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m.

Funeral service will be held in the chapel on Thursday, August 9, 2018 at 1:00 p.m.

Interment will follow at United Cemeteries, Carleton Place.

For those who wish memorial donations in memory of Clem may be made to the Smiths Falls Community Hospital Foundation.

Obituary For Pedro Guerrero Salas

Looking for an example of an obituary of a man who lived a rich life?  Look no further.  Salas was a solider, father, grandfather, and a man who’ll be remembered for his independent spirit, strength and loyalty.

Pedro was a beloved father, grandfather, and great grandfather, who dedicated many years of his life to helping others and in service to his faith and membership in the Westlake Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses.

A Korean War veteran and recipient of two Bronze Stars and a Purple Heart, he served with honor in both the Army and the Navy.

Pedro retired from the University of Texas after 20 years of service as a store clerk in the Electrical Engineering and Chemistry departments.

He was born on March 3, 1932 to Pedro Salas and Anita Guerrero in Gonzalez, Texas. He is preceded in death by his parents, and sisters Theodora Perez, Olivia Zepeda, Benita Perez, and Gloria Salas.

Pedro is survived by nine children: Joanne Salas and her spouse, Sam Hernandez, Thomas Salas, Gloria Salas Kos and her spouse, Tim Kos, Alma Salas, Abel Salas, Patricia Salas, Pedro Salas Jr. and his spouse, Marycela Salas, Abraham Salas, and Adrian Salas; four siblings, his twin brother, Alfredo Salas, Sarah Salas, Esequiel Salas, and Alicia Budd; seventeen grandchildren and nine great grandchildren.

Known for quoting the lyrics of Frank Sinatra’s song, “My Way,” Pedro will be remembered for his fierce independence, strength, and loyalty to his family and faith.

Obituary For Luigi “Louis” Rizzuto

his obituary example includes references to a meaningful family life and the deceased’s strong religious faith. We particularly love the line:  “This gentle, loving, caring and wonderful man has left a permanent mark etched on our hearts and will be supremely missed”.

RIZZUTO, Luigi “Louis” 1927 – 2018.  His life was well lived and he was well loved! The Lord called him home in a peaceful manner at the Carpenter Hospice, with his family by his side, on Tuesday, July 10, 2018 in his 92nd year.

This gentle, loving, caring and wonderful man has left a permanent mark etched on our hearts and will be supremely missed by his wife and best friend of 67 years Gertrude (Bessette) and his children Bob (Marie), Alan (Carla), Michael (Gail) and Louise (Mario).

Family was the pivotal essence of Louis’ life. He was proud and honoured to be the patriarch, father, grandfather and great-grandfather to our large family. He has been a major presence in the lives of his children and grandchildren.

He is a proud grandfather to Bryan (Christy), Laura, Jayke, Cassandra (Scott), Karyn (Mike), Carly, Kate (Mike), Emily (Mike), Scott, Brooke (Luca), Brett (Rachel), Brittney, Andrew, Sarah and Olivia. He cherished his role of great-grandfather to Nicholas, Anthony, Lilianna, Chelsea, Ava and James.

Born in Italy and immigrating to Canada in 1938, Louis spent his life as a hardworking, dedicated, faithful and loving man.

He had a long-standing relationship with God and was very blessed with his faith to his dying breath.

He was predeceased by his parents Rafael and Filomena, his brother Maurice, brothers-in-law Mario and Richard and sisters-in-law, Rosetta, Rena, Claudette and Rayjeanne. He is survived by his loving brother Eddie, brothers-in-law Larry and Danny and sisters-in-law Monique, Michele and Jacqueline.

He will be sadly missed by his many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

The family would like to thank all the health care professionals from the LHIN and CCAC for their great care in the last couple of months of his life and are sincerely grateful to the wonderful staff and volunteers at the Carpenter Hospice who comforted and cared for him in his last days.

Louis will be forever remembered for his beautiful smile, gentle eyes, caring heart, loving embrace and unconditional love.  Although our hearts are heavy, we will celebrate his life and find comfort that he is in heaven watching over us.

All are welcome for visitation to take place at Smith Funeral Home, 1167 Guelph Line, Burlington, on Friday, July 13th from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Paul the Apostle Catholic Church, 2265 Headon Rd., Burlington, on Saturday, July 14th, at 10 a.m.

Obituary Examples For Daughters

Obituary for teresa michelle starnes.

Ms. Starnes was a beloved daughter, granddaughter, sister, mother and friend.  We included this obituary in our collection of examples because of the many beautiful lines it contains:  “She had the most beautiful smile that could light up your soul”; “She could spend hours staring at the stars dreaming”; and “If you were lucky enough to be present when she gazed into her children’s faces, the pure joy radiating from her would blind you.”

Teresa Michelle Starnes, 29, of Tennessee Colony, Texas, passed away on Monday, August 20, 2018.

She was born on September 27, 1988 in Dallas, Texas, the daughter of Jerry Starnes and Julie Bales.

Teresa was a loving and compassionate person who loved to be silly. She had the most beautiful smile that could light up your soul.

Teresa loved family game nights, sitting outside, and going to the lake. She enjoyed camping, sitting by the fire with her friends and family laughing and telling stories. Teresa could spend hours staring at the stars dreaming.

The relationship she had with her brother, Richard Starnes, was not like any other. Teresa was a wonderful big sister that taught him a lot and she always had his back. When her brother would see her, his whole face would light up and the time would just be lost.

Most of all she loved and adored her children, they were her world. If you were lucky enough to be present when she gazed into her children’s faces, the pure joy radiating from her would blind you. Teresa wanted nothing more for them than to have a wonderful life.

She is preceded in death by her brother, Matthew Starnes; grandparents, Gerald Bales, Troy Starnes, and Alice Starnes. Teresa is survived by her loving children, Alaina Patton, Faylin Whitt, Davin Fisher, and Zylie Whitt; mother, Julie Bales; father, Jerry Starnes; siblings, Richard Starnes; grandmother, Cathy Brown and husband, Gregg; step father; Daniel Barber; numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

She will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.

Visitation will be from 10:30 am – 11:30 am on Saturday, September 1st at the funeral home.

Funeral Services will begin at 11:30 am on Saturday, September 1st in the Chism-Smith Funeral Home Chapel.

Interment will immediately follow going to Shady Grove Cemetery in Irving, Texas.

Obituary For Sara Magoon

In this obituary, parents mourn the loss of their daughter who passed away much too young at the age of 28. They ask readers to not only remember her beautiful spirit, but to remember to live life to the fullest because it’s much too short.

A beloved daughter, granddaughter, sister, niece, cousin and friend, Sara Katheryn Magoon left this world unexpectedly, at 28, on Feb. 11, 2018. Born in Chandler, Ariz. on Nov. 19, 1989 to Jeff and Monica (Sanchez) Magoon, Sara grew up in Globe, just east of metro Phoenix, where she attended Holy Angels Elementary School and Globe High School before relocating to Phoenix in 2008.

Sara was a lover of the arts and fashion and enjoyed dancing and listening to music. She was funny, outgoing and vivacious, but she was also introverted and introspective. Appropriately self-nicknamed “Panther,” a symbol of power, beauty and grace, she was fiercely loyal to her friends and family. We will always remember her infectious smile, piercing blue eyes and caring personality. Her presence in our lives will be sorely missed.

When you think of Sara, celebrate the good memories you have of her. Remember that life is fragile and short and should be lived to the fullest.

Sara was preceded in death by her grandparents Ron and Sue Magoon. She leaves behind her parents, brother Andrew; sister Ashley and Ashley’s husband, James, and their daughter, Eva; grandparents, Dick and Dora Buckley and Jim Sanchez; aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

A Celebration of Life will be held 2 p.m., Saturday, Feb. 24 at Meldrum Mortuary, located at 52 N. Macdonald in Mesa. The ceremony is followed by a potluck dinner at the Shalimar Country Club from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. located at 2032 E. Golf Avenue in Tempe.

In lieu of flowers, the family is requesting that a donation be made in Sara’s name to the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) www.namiaz.com.

Obituary For Ariana L. “Annie” Berger

This is an example of an obituary of a daughter who passed away after a length battle with illness (Cystic Fibrosis).  Despite her illness, she was always a positive person who brought joy to others.

Berger, Ariana L. Annie, 26, Johnstown, passed away on June 2, 2018 at UPMC Shadyside, after a long and courageous battle with Cystic Fibrosis Born December 4, 1991 in Johnstown; daughter of Bernard Berger and Lynda Wedge. Preceded in death by her father, her grandfather Jack Bittner, and her soulmate and the love of her life who she is now reunited with, her boyfriend Brandon Carmello, who also passed away after battling Cystic Fibrosis.

Survived by her mother Lynda Wedge, her step-father, Tim Wedge, her step-mother Cathy Henzler; her siblings, Ashley Gates and her husband Brian, Johnstown; Alyson Dube and her boyfriend Brennan Maher, Johnstown; her step-siblings, Timothy Wedge Jr. and his wife Nicole, Stahlstown; Nicole Wedge, Johnstown; her grandmother Gladys Bittner, whom took great care of Ariana, and made sure she always made it to her doctors appointments, and that she had her medications, and breathing treatments, she will miss her daily calls from Ariana, as they talked every day; her grandmother Angela Amps; her pride and joy, and motivation in life; her niece Aria Buggy Gates; her niece, Alexis Wedge; her favorite Aunt Regina Bittner.

As well as numerous other family members and friends, especially her Cysters and Fibros whom she loved dearly, and was in constant contact with, as well as her second family, the nurses of 4 East who cared for her at UPMC Shadyside. Ariana enjoyed Rap music, Reality Television, she loved her tennis shoe collection, and her mismatched socks, despite her illness, she was always positive, and wanted to help whoever she could.

She was a loving daughter, sister, granddaughter, aunt, and niece. Arianas stubborn, yet loving and caring personality will be missed by all who knew and loved her.

I ached and yearned for that imaginary place, the one which I could breathe. Now I sit here with God, with Nature beauty and astounding light; and now I feel like finally I can BREATHE!

Friends and family will be received on Tuesday June 5, 2018 from 4 to 8pm at Hindman Funeral Home & Crematory Inc. 1521 Frankstown Road.

A funeral service will be held at 1pm on Wednesday June 6, 2018 at the funeral home, Pastor John Weaver & Pastor Keith Lohr, officiating. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in memory of Ariana can be made to the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, 4550 Montgomery Ave. Suite 1100 N Bethesda, MD 20184 or the Make-A-Wish Foundation, 4742 N. 24th St. Suite 400 Phoenix, AZ 85016, or consider the gift of organ donation, as that is something Ariana was and advocate for.

Arrangements in care of Hindman Funeral Homes & Crematory, Inc. Exclusive Provider of Veterans & Family Memorial Care.

Condolences may be made at HindmanFuneralHomes.com.

Obituary Examples For Sons

Obituary for taylor wilson.

It is a touching example of an obituary written by a mourning father for his beloved son.  It includes many beautiful sentiments, including:  “Those who knew Taylor, even just a little, lost a shining light in their lives.”

With deepest sorrow, we announce that Taylor Wilson (Nuggy), age 27 our most beloved son, brother, family member and friend passed suddenly on Tuesday, July 12, 2016 while in the hospital.

Those who knew Taylor, even just a little, lost a shining light in their lives.

Taylor will be missed everyday by his Father, Gordon Wilson, his Mother, Karen, brother Talon, Sister Madison, his grandparents Jeanette and Dougie, his loving Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and many, many great friends.

We know Taylor is now with his Nana, Joan Wilson and his Cousin Christian Gareau and is loved here on earth as well as in heaven.

We LOVE and MISS you so much my Son XOXO

Build Me a Son, O Lord

Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory.

Build me a son whose wishbone will not be where his backbone should be; a son who will know Thee and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge. Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail.

Build me a son whose heart will be clean, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men; one who will learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep; one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humor, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, the meekness of true strength.

Then I, his father, will dare to whisper, “I have not lived in vain.” (General Douglas MacArthur)

Friends will be received at the J.S. Jones & Son Funeral Home, 11582 Trafalgar Road, Georgetown (905)877-3631 on Monday from 2-4 & 7-9 pm.

Funeral Mass will be held at Holy Cross Catholic Church, 14400 Argyll Road, Georgetown on Tuesday July 19th at 10:00 am. Cremation to follow.

Memorial contributions to Pinky Paws Rescue (www.pinkypawsrescue.com) would be appreciated.

To send condolences please visit www.jsjonesandsonfuneralhome.com.

Obituary For Daniel Wong

We included this obituary as an example of things that you might include in an obituary for a son that passed away far too soon, such as academic successes, hobbies, family and friendship.

Daniel Raymond Wong, 22, of Boston and formerly of Summit, died on Dec. 3, 2013, at Beth Israel Deaconess Hospital in Boston after almost three months of illness.

Although only 22 at the time of his death, Daniel affected many people in his lifetime.

He was deeply committed to education and tutored fellow students in Summit High School and underprivileged students in surrounding towns beginning his sophomore year. He enjoyed tutoring both academic subjects and the SAT, and later became a college prep advisor to his former students.

At a very early age, Daniel adopted the Oregon Ducks as his team, and if obsessive devotion translates into winning stats, his devotion is the reason for the Ducks’ current success.

Daniel’s loyalty to the Ducks was split when he entered Stanford University in 2009. There, in addition to rooting for the Stanford Cardinal, he majored in public policy and economics.

Daniel also served as education resident theme advisor in his dorm East and as treasurer for his SigEp fraternity. While at Stanford, he continued to tutor underprivileged children in East Palo Alto while tutoring via Skype his students in Summit.

Daniel was committed to friendship. In his last semester at Stanford, Daniel decided to focus on cementing relationships with his dear friends rather than his coursework, and later reported that it was his best semester ever in terms of good times as well as grade point average.

Daniel was working as an investment analyst at The Investment Fund for Foundations in Cambridge, Mass., at the time of his illness.

Daniel was born in Morristown and grew up in Summit. He is the second of three beloved children to Raymond and Nora Wong of Summit. Besides his parents, Daniel leaves behind his sister, Adrienne; and brother, Matthew; and many other loving family members and friends.

A memorial service was held on Dec. 14 at Christ Church in Summit. His burial will be private.

Those who choose to give a gift to honor Daniel are asked to make a contribution in his name to the Make-A-Wish Foundation.

Obituary For Evan James O’Reilly

This is an obituary for a son who passed away too soon from complications from a long-term illness.  It’s an excellent example of how to pay tribute to a life well-lived, no matter how short.

Evan James O’Reilly August 7, 1983 to May 22, 2018.  We lost Evan earlier this week as a result of complications from a liver condition he had battled with courage and quiet dignity for his entire life.

Evan was a loving son and best friend to his mother, Lourdes Harville, of Lexington, Kentucky, and his father, Terry O’Reilly, of Salisbury, Massachusetts.

He is survived by his parents and by his maternal grandparents, Myrta and Miquel Ramirez, his brother Conor O’Reilly, his step-sister Alisha Macky, his step-mother Judie O’Reilly and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Evan was predeceased by his paternal grandparents, Audrey and Jim O’Reilly.

Evan lived in Georgetown for most of his life. He was active in student politics at Georgetown High School, serving as class president for his final two years before graduating from there in 2002. As a Selectman on the town council for a two-year term from 2008 to 2010, Evan was a strong advocate for seniors, for the environment and for financial accountability.

Evan’s pursuit of a career in hotel management took him to Lexington for about five years, initially as an internal service auditor for Marriott Hotels and later as an external auditor with Deloitte.

He returned to the Georgetown area in 2017 in a management role with Jamson Hotel Management.

While managing these various full-time roles, Evan also worked towards a business administration degree through part-time programs at the University of Massachusetts.

Evan was an avid sports enthusiast and a lifelong fan of all the Boston-area professional sports teams, the Bruins first among them.

From an early age he loved to fish with family and friends at the family cottage on Lake Kashawakamak, three hours’ drive north-east of Toronto, Canada.

In later years he came to enjoy “Kash” as much for the peacefulness and remoteness of the place and the opportunity it represented for quiet times with family and friends.

Evan was a true friend to his friends – ready and willing at a moment’s notice, to endure a nine hour drive in each direction for the sake of friendship.

Evan’s family extends their heartfelt thanks to the health-care professionals at Exeter NH Hospital and Beth Israel Hospital, Boston, for their care and commitment for Evan over the past month.

Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Conte-Giamberardino Funeral Home, 14 Pleasant Street, Georgetown, MA.  Evan’s Funeral Mass will be offered at 11:00 am on Thursday, May 31, 2018 at St. Mary’s Church, 94 Andover Street, Georgetown, MA, with a reception to follow.

Friends and family are invited to visit with Evan’s family at St. Mary’s Church from 4:00 pm to 8:00 pm on  Wednesday, May 30, 2018.

For those who wish, in lieu of flowers, Evan’s family would appreciate donations to the American Liver Foundation (https://liverfoundation.org) or to the Sister Bernadette Scholarship Fund at Rossbrook House Inc. www.rossbrookhouse.ca), or to another charity of your choice.

Obituary For Michael H.K. Cohen

The parents of Michael Cohen chose to acknowledge that their son died by suicide after struggling with depression in his obituary in the “hopes of promoting dialogue and removing the stigma of mental illness”.  It’s an example of an obituary that is both touching and courageous.

Cherished and beloved son of Stephen M. L. & Carol Fishman Cohen. Loving brother of Andrew, Sarah and David Cohen. Adored grandson of Nancy & Dr. Albert Cohen and Eileen & the late Dr. I. William Fishman.

Michael grew up in Newton, Massachusetts, attended the Commonwealth School in Boston and graduated from Pomona College in Claremont, California.

Fluent in Mandarin, Michael moved to Beijing, China after college and spent the next three and a half years working at early stage Chinese companies and exploring the Far East.

An enthusiastic and curious traveler, he took every opportunity to venture out, visiting 27 countries around the world and some of the most remote regions of China.

When he returned to Boston in late 2016, while mapping out his future plans, Michael began to work as a freelance translator, using his elegant writing style to bring Chinese fantasy novels to English-speaking audiences.

Michael settled into life in Boston, building connections in the young professional community, preparing for his post-China career, and falling in love with a woman he had known since high school.

Until December 2017, Michael remained the same solidly grounded and engaged person he had been throughout his entire life. But in December, without warning, he slid into a depression from which he seemed to be emerging during his final weeks.

His decision to take his own life – a life of so much accomplishment and promise – was completely unexpected and shocked everyone who knew him.

Since Michael’s death, many have written about how special he was and how fortunate they were to have known him.

They recall how he served as a leader and mentor for Jewish students at Pomona and the other Claremont colleges, and as a role model for students dreaming of setting out for Asia after college.

They admire how he built connections to Jewish communities in China and wherever he traveled.

They marvel at his encyclopedic knowledge of music and his remarkable talent for mixing songs to create mashups so professional that people would play them at parties.

They remember how he combined his love of travel with a vast knowledge of the intricacies of loyalty point programs, allowing him to explore the world in style on a limited budget, and the pleasure he derived from helping others do the same.

They reminisce about his ever-present smile and the warmth, depth and intelligence behind it.

Most of all, they recall the sheer pleasure of his company, how good he made them feel, how free they were to be themselves around him, and how much they will miss him.

Michael cared about people in the purest way. He loved them for who they were and because he wished the best for them, without guile and without asking anything in return.

As one of his close friends wrote, “What you saw was always what you got with him, and what you saw – if you were lucky enough to be his friend – was a truly delightful, generous, easy-going, fun-loving human being.”

Michael had so much goodness, so much capacity to bring happiness to others and such a bright future. The world is a lesser place without him.

A private funeral service was held at Or Emeth Cemetery in West Roxbury, Massachusetts and a memorial service is planned for a later date.

Obituary Examples For Teenagers

Obituary for hana grace-rose williams.

This is an example of a simple obituary for a girl who died at the age of 13 years.

Hana Grace-Rose Williams, age 13, passed away unexpectedly at her home in Sedro-Woolley on Thursday, May 12, 2011. Hana was born on July 19, 1997 in Ethiopia and came to join the Williams family on August 16, 2008 at the age of 11.

Funeral Services will be held on Wednesday, May 18, 2011 at 2:00 PM at Lemley Chapel in Sedro-Woolley. Share memories of Hana and sign the online guest register at www.lemleychapel.com.

Obituary For Mason Jay Lynn Shetler

Do you have to write an obituary for a teenage boy?  This example may give you inspiration on the types of details to include.

Mason Jay Lynn Shetler, age 13 of South Bend, passed away on Monday, November 6, 2017 at Memorial Hospital.  Mason was born November 24, 2003 in Goshen, Indiana.

He enjoyed doing what most 13 year old boys do, playing video games, building things with his Lego’s, doing puzzles and playing games with his family, rollerblading and playing the drums.

Mason also loved animals, collecting rocks, and riding his bike.  He enjoyed spending time outdoors, especially fishing, even though he didn’t like to bait his own hook, or take a fish off of his line!

He loved holidays. Thanksgiving was a favorite because it falls on his birthday about every 6 years. His favorite was getting dressed up for Halloween and trick-or-treating. He also loved Easter, 4th of July and Christmas. 

Most importantly, Mason had a deep love for his family, and cherished the time they would spend together playing practical jokes on each other, and enjoying family dinners together.

He leaves behind his mother and father Jennifer and Erik Powers of South Bend, his siblings Cody, Lexie, Jagger, Kyleigha, Gage and Levi, and his Grandmother Michele. 

Also surviving are his aunts and uncles, Raven, River, Stephanie, Michael and great aunt and uncle Reverie and Aaron.

A private celebration of life service for Mason will be held at a later date.  Cruz Family Funeral Home and Cremation Service is handling the arrangements. 

Obituary For Rose Madison Rondinelli

Here is a heartbreaking obituary for a teenage girl who died by suicide.  While her parents take comfort that she is no longer in pain, they share that they will never be the same again.

Rose loved so many, and was loved by so many more.  She had an energy that with even just one encounter with her, you would remember her for life.

If you knew her well or barely at all, she always left you thinking. Whether it was about how absolutely beautiful, ridiculously funny, or just down right inappropriate she was, she left her mark.

She will continue to stay with us all through memories, and the laughs she forced us all to endure whether we were in the mood for it or not. We will see her everywhere. XXXL T-shirt’s, uneven bangs, Nike Air Force One’s and anytime you hear anything related to one of her many hobbies and obsessions.

She left the pain, but she also left us all and we will never be the same again. Now she is no longer in pain, yet we will continue to hurt.

At this time, we must come together and laugh for Rose’s sake. Rose would have wanted it that way.

Rose’s service and interment were held privately.

Contributions may be made in Rose’s name to Aevidum In the “Add a Special Instructions to Seller” Please type “Downingtown East High School for Rose Rondinelli” P.O. Box 64, Lititz PA 17543 and or Chester County Suicide Prevention Task Force PO Box 315, Exton PA 19341.

Arrangements by DellaVecchia, Reilly, Smith & Boyd Funeral Home.

Obituary For Nicholas Anthony Joyce

This teen passed tragically following a car crash, along with three of his friends.  His obituary celebrates his love of life and articulates what a hole his death has left in the hearts of his friends and family.

Nicholas Anthony Joyce, 16, was born June 18, 2001. Nicholas, a longtime resident of Stoughton, died unexpectedly on Saturday, May 19, 2018.

Nicholas was born in Boston and later moved to Stoughton in 2006. Nicholas was the son of Ida L. (Walker) and Richard C. Joyce, Sr. In addition to his parents, Nicholas is survived by his siblings, Richard C. Joyce, Jr., Kristopher J. Joyce and Brittney N. Joyce, and like sister, Adryian Williamson, as well as his niece, Leila M. Joyce. He was the grandson of Ernest and Varie Joyce of Dorchester and the late Johnnie and Mildred Walker. He is also survived by many aunts, uncles and cousins.

Nicholas was a Junior at Stoughton High School, Class of 2019 and a member of the track and football teams. He was also involved in the Fruition Scholars at Stoughton High School.

Nicholas enjoyed graphic designing and was active in STOYAC sports growing up.

He loved being around family and friends. Nicholas was the life of the party and loved to dance and have a good time. He also loved to play video games in his free time and could be found sketching designs of shoes.

Nicholas will truly be missed. Joyce Forever!

VISITING HOURS WILL BE HELD ON THURSDAY MORNING, MAY 31, FROM 9-10:30 AM at the Grace Church, 101 Wales Ave., Avon followed by a Funeral Service at 10:30 AM. Interment at Evergreen Cemetery, 1100 Washington St., Stoughton.

Arrangements by Farley Funeral Home, Stoughton.

Obituary For Lauren Grace Liu

It is heart-wrenching when teen depression ends in suicide. This obituary of a young girl captures the happiness she brought to others before she left this world.

She was 14 years old and was a freshman at Kent Place School.  She earned straight A’s in her first trimester and was on the starting line-up on the Varsity tennis team helping them win the school’s first state championship.

Lauren brought so much love and joy in our lives and to those who were around her.

She was an incredible skier and loved our annual trips to Snowbird, Utah. Last year, she was doing off trail double black diamonds with chutes. This year, our plan was to ski the Cirque together.

She was a beautiful and passionate dancer exhibiting movements that could move your soul to tears. We can still vividly see her dancing to John Legend’s “All of Me”.

Lauren will always be remembered for her gentleness, grace, and kindness toward others. She always seemed to look out after others and would put others before herself.

Since she was an infant, one of our greatest joys was to make her laugh because it truly came from her soul (her “belly laugh” as we called it).

Despite her God given gift of bringing love to people, deep inside she was suffering in the darkness, privately battling a deep inexplicable pain.

She succumbed to the silent illness of depression and took her own life in our home this past Monday. We know that she is without pain and is now at rest in God’s arms.

Lauren is survived by her adoring parents, James and Helen Hurh Liu, her loving brother, David, grandparents Soo and Sook Hurh and Ken and Tracy Liu, her aunts and uncle, Tae and Regina Kim and Elaine Liu and cousin Penny Kim.

A vigil to be held at the Renaissance Church in the Summit Opera House on Friday, November 3, at 7:30p. This will be a time of prayer, reading of Scripture, and song.

Please also join us in our celebration of life service in remembering and honoring Lauren this Saturday, November 4, at Community Congregational Church in Short Hills. Doors will open at 10:45 am for a time of gathering and viewing of memorabilia that represented her life, followed by a celebration of life service at 11:30 am.

In light of Lauren’s battle with depression and the sadness left in its wake, the Liu family has created the Hope for Lauren Foundation, dedicated to supporting children who are suffering from depression and mental illness, funding clinical and biomedical research for depression, raising awareness for suicide prevention, and supporting families who are suicide survivors.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made through In Memory of https://www.inmemoryof-memorial.org/lauren-grace-liu to the Hope for Lauren Foundation.

Obituary Examples For Young Children

Obituary for olivia grace white.

This is a touching example of an obituary for a young child that passed away in her sleep.  Though she didn’t live many years on earth, she deeply touched the hearts of those who knew her.

OLIVIA GRACE WHITE — at home and in her sleep on December 26, 2012 at the age of five and a half.

She touched the lives of so many; our beloved, shining, happy girl, the light of our lives and the star of our hearts and leaves us smiling through our tears. She was joy personified.

Please spread her message of love, dance and laughter and be good to one another.

Beloved daughter of Dada and Mumma Glenn and Jennifer White and the best big sister to Aurelia Wren.

Sorrowfully missed by all who knew her, especially Grandpa Alan and Baka Annie, Granny and Grandpa England, Papa and Oma and Grammy Biz. Treasured niece of Brandon, Callum, Emily, Lucy, Rayna, Scott and Turner.

Family and friends will be received at MOUNT PLEASANT VISITATION CENTRE, 375 Mount Pleasant Road, Toronto, on Thursday, January 3, 2013 from 7-9 p.m.

A private funeral service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the Make-A-Wish Foundation of Canada www.makeawish.ca.

Have bunny dreams my darling. Just bunny dreams.

Obituary For Garrett Michael Matthias

Garrett’s mother helped him write his own obituary while he was in hospital battling cancer…

Garrett Michael Matthias AKA “The Great Garrett Underpants” Of Van Meter, Iowa –

My name is: Garrett Michael Boofias

My birthday is: I am 5 years old

My address is: I am a Bulldog!

My favorite color is: Blue….and Red and Black and Green

My favorite superhero is: Batman…and Thor, Iron Man, the Hulk and Cyborg

When I grow up: I’m going to be a professional boxer

My favorite people are: Mommy, Daddy, my sister ‘Delcina’ (Delphina), The grandparents with the new house (Fredric and Cheryl Krueger), The grandparents with the camper (Daniel and Nita Matthias), My cousins: Grady, ‘that guy I took down that one time’ (Luke), and London Marie, My Auntie Janette and Stinky Uncle Andy (Andrew and Janette Krueger), Those two guys, you know, my uncles (Kristopfer Krueger and James Taylor); Batman!!

The things I love the most: Playing with my sister, my blue bunny, thrash metal, Legos, my daycare friends, Batman and when they put me to sleep before they access my port

Things I hate: Pants!, dirty stupid cancer, when they access my port, needles, and the monkey nose that smells like cherry farts…I do like the mint monkey nose like at Mayo Radiation and that one guy that helped me build Legos (Randy)

When I die: I am going to be a gorilla and throw poo at Daddy!

Burned or Buried: I want to be burned (like when Thor’s Mommy died) and made into a tree so I can live in it when I’m a gorilla.

Big or Small Funeral: Funerals are sad: I want 5 bouncy houses (because I’m 5), Batman, and snow cones

Emilie and Ryan Matthias will honor Garrett’s final wishes by having a Celebration of Life on Saturday, July 14th from 5pm – 11pm at 2377 132nd Ct Van Meter, Iowa

Note: Symbolic Asgardian burial ceremony and fireworks will be held just after sunset.

A private burial of Garrett’s ashes will be held at a later time once his parents figure out how the hell to get his ashes made into a tree and locate a nature preserve, so his tree resides in a protected area.

We are so grateful to the many doctors, nurses, child life specialists, musicians, art therapists, and volunteers that worked tirelessly to cure Garrett of his cancer. The reality for Garrett and so many other children is pediatric cancer is an ugly, nasty beast that leaves a path of destruction. For Garrett and many others before him — cancer kills. Those that are ‘lucky’ enough to survive endure long term debilitating side effects and the constant fear of relapse. We will fight for a cure until no other kids are robbed of their childhood, no other siblings lose their best friends, and no other parents have to bury their babies.

Garrett endured nine months of hell before he lost his battle with cancer. During that time he never lost his sense of humor and loved to tease the doctors and nurses. From whoopy cushions and sneaking clothes pins on their clothes to “hazing” the interns and new staff doctors, he was forever a prankster. Nothing caught people off guard as his response to “see ya later alligator”.

Obituary For Jenna Judkins

This is a touching example of an obituary of parents who lost a beloved child, but who have hope that one day they’ll be reunited with their little angel in heaven.

JUDKINS, Jenna Kay, age 8 of White House, passed away June 28, 2018. Jenna was preceded in death by Crystal, her precious hermit crab she got in Panama City Beach July 2016 and Zhu Zhu the mouse March 2018.

She is survived by her father, Jason Alan Judkins; mother, Wanda Kay Judkins; brother, Jase Alan Judkins; grandparents, Rick and Carolyn (Causey) Judkins-paternal, Terry Milliken and Betty Spalding-maternal; uncles, Ricky Judkins, Kenny Spalding and Terry Milliken, Jr.; children, Daisy, the crazy Lab dog and Molly, the fancy mouse.

Funeral Services will be held Tuesday, July 3rd at 1 pm from the chapel of Sellars Funeral Home at Hendersonville with Pastor Rich Powell officiating. Interment will follow the service at Hendersonville Memory Gardens with Rick Judkins, Ricky Judkins, Terry Milliken, Jr., Will Russell, Chad Mitchell and John Boland serving as pallbearers. Honorary pallbearers are all the doctors and nurses on 6A and 6B that took special care of this very special girl.

Visitation with the family will be Sunday, July 1st from 4-8 pm, Monday, July 2nd from 4-8 pm and Tuesday, July 3rd from 11 am until time of service.

Jenna, We love you baby! We’re so proud of what you accomplished in your short time on Earth. You were born with some type of power that had people gravitate toward you. You never complained!

You took whatever circumstance came your way and never let it stop you from what you wanted to do!

You brightened every single person you came in contact with! You gave yourself to others, you sacrificed for others, and you always, always thought about others.

A true humanitarian, a true example to live by, and a precious gift from God! The way you carried yourself reminded me of how the bible talks of “God’s Will.”

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:18

You are a light in a dark room! I knew your name long before you were born. You loved to plan parties. This is your job now. Prepare a place for us as we prepared a place for you. You have the sweetest little voice I have ever heard.  Have fun and play until we get to see you again!

I can picture you as such a beautiful angel. You’re smile, your blonde hair, and your laugh. You have both of your arms again! When we meet again we will run to you with arms open, feel both of your arms around us, and we’ll never let you go!

I can hear you reading this in heaven now. Nothing can separate love. Because of this, we will always be connected. We love you Jenna and we are so proud of you! We’re happy that you’re not in pain anymore!

Daddy, Momma, and Jase

In lieu of flowers the family respectfully request dontations to Dreams and Wishes of Tennessee.

Obituary For Lucca Phoenix Small

This obituary for Lucca shows how much he is loved, and what a shining personality the little guy had.

Lucca Phoenix Small went to be with the angels on February 20, 2018.  Born at home in Woodland Park with his parents and sister on November 13, 2013, Lucca was the essence of joyfulness and life.

He was baptized on February 15, 2015 at Holy Rosary Chapel where his family worships.  Lucca was always proud to say the blessing at family gatherings.

He loved tractors, dirt bikes and quads, playing with tools, building with blocks and discovering.  He attended Pre-school in the Pines and built strong friendships with the teachers and children there.

Lucca loved his family deeply, and is survived by his parents Ashley Whittemore and Christopher Small; his big sister Reagan Small; his Papa & Nana Michael and Michelle Whittemore; his Oma Roberta Small; his Grandma Melody Babbitt; Aunts & Uncles Katie and Kalib Heidenreich, Anna Whittemore, Matthew Crain, Andrew Small, Erica Small; and cousins Joey and Emily Jo; along with great grandparents and many great aunts and uncles.  Lucca was preceded in visiting heaven by his grandfather Stephen Small and other precious family members.

Lucca was a ray of sunshine and loved bright colors.  The family requests that those attending the Celebration of Life at Holy Rosary wear clothes that reflect Lucca’s joy and happiness.  Reception will follow at the Whittemore home.

Obituary For Jade Elizabeth Foeller

While she only lived to the age of eight, Jade had a big impact on those around her.  This obituary gives many examples of how she stood out and was a leader among her classmates.

Jade Elizabeth Foeller, age 8, of Robards, KY, gained her angel wings on Wednesday, June 13, 2018 at Cincinnati Children’s Hospital in Cincinnati, OH.

Jade was preceded in death by her brother, Jamien Heathcock, great grandparents: Raymond Dean, Ermal and Hazel Field, JD Heathcock, Louise Singleton, and Lelia Embry.

With her long brown hair, big brown eyes, and a huge smile, Jade “little britches” “jadermonkers” would light up any room she was in. She spread love and laughter wherever she went.

She was happiest when she was at home surrounded by her favorite people.

Jade could be found playing in the creek, riding the four-wheeler, and running around barefoot. Even when she was out getting dirty she loved being pretty, dressed up, and wearing make-up. Whether she was a tomboy or a princess, she always shined bright and spread joy.

She was such a little girl, but so so big. Jade was a wonderful student who, in just 2nd grade, already showed herself to be a leader among her classmates.

Survivors include: Parents: Jeana and Deland Hager Siblings: Sydney Hager, Jace Hager, Noah Hager, Jasper Hager Grandparents: Laura Hager, Wanda Field, Jim Field, Albert and Cathy Crook Uncles: Jason Heathcock and Davy Summers Aunts: Jamie Embry, Kayla Hager and Jamey Barrett Many other aunts, uncles, and cousins, as well as a host of loving relatives

Relatives and friends are invited to Jade’s Life Celebration from 1:00 until 8:00 p.m. Monday and again on Tuesday starting at 10:00 a.m. at Benton-Glunt Funeral Home.

The funeral service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Tuesday, June 19, 2018 at the funeral home with Reverend Jack Ross officiating. A graveside service will be held at Maumee Cemetery in Owensville, IN at 2:00 p.m. with Bart Newton officiating.

Expressions of sympathy may take the form of contributions to the Hager Family.

Obituary Examples For Babies

Obituary for infant bentley langley.

Even though Bentley did not live long, he left behind a family that will dearly miss him, as can be clearly seen in this obituary.

Our Little Angel, who will always be a precious gift and memory.

Surviving are his parents Melissa Cronkright and Brad Langley; two sisters, Taylor and Merissa Langley; maternal grandmother, Pamela Cronkright of Flint; paternal grandmother, Angela Picerno of Flint; maternal great grandmother, Charlotte Daniels of Flint; paternal great grandmother, Jeanette Picerno of Flint; two uncles, Jason Edwards of Davison, and James Edwards of Flint; one aunt, Cheri and husband Edward Rose of Burton; and numerous other relatives.

He was preceded in death by maternal grandfather, Robert Cronkright; and paternal great grandfather, Angelo Picerno.

A gathering with the family will be held from 11 AM to 12:30 PM Thursday, June 5th, 2014 at Campbell Stocking Family Funeral Home, Farwell.  Memorial contributions may be made to the family.

Obituary For Infant Keymani Iman Amour Proctor

This is an example of an obituary for a stillborn baby.

Baby Keymani Iman Amour Proctor, infant son of Tomeka Love and William Proctor was stillborn on Saturday, April 7, 2018 at OSF St. Francis Medical Center, Peoria, IL.

Little Keymani will be remembered by his parents, Tomeka Love and William Proctor; four brothers, Dae’Jeon Love, James Stowers, Jr, Jae’Viane Stowers and Kamye’ Stowers; two sisters, La’Corria Stowers and Ja’da Love; grandparents, Bernice Young and Derrick Proctor all of Peoria; and a host of aunts, uncles, family and friends.

He is preceded in death by his grandparents, Cora Lee and Ollie Love.

A memorial service will be held at 11 am on Saturday, April 21, 2018 at Simons Mortuary Chapel with a visitation beginning at 10:30 am. Rev. Barry Robinson, Pastor of Bethel Baptist Church, Peoria, IL will officiate.

Obituary For Infant Lilly Ann Elise

Lilly Elise was only 3 months old when she passed away.  This is her obituary:

INFANT, Lilly Ann Elise 3 months, beloved daughter of Brittany Leliah Bruce, passed away December 27, 2016. She was born September 14, 2016 in Springfield.

She is survived by her mother; Brittany Leliah Bruce, maternal grandparents; Mark Alan and Lisa Dawn Bruce, maternal great grandparents; Charles H. and Betty A. (Robinson) Bruce, Deletha Jean and Fletcer Gene Mayson, aunt and uncle; Chad Andrew Bruce and Britney Lyn Bruce, cousins; Adrianna N. Bruce, Jayden L. Brown and Kaydence D. Bruce, great aunts and uncles; Richard E. (Roberta) Bruce, Deborah Bruce and Debora K. (Charles) Mathews.

She was preceded in death by maternal great grandmother; Betty Ann Bruce and maternal great grandfather; Harold T. “Sonny” Casey.

Funeral services will be held at 1:00PM Wednesday in the JONES-KENNEY-ZECHMAN FUNERAL HOME with Pastor Rick Clos officiating.

Visitation will be held from 11:00AM until the time of the services. Burial will follow in Ferncliff Cemetery.

Obituary For Infant Fawcett

Here is another example of an obituary of a baby that sadly was stillborn.

Infant Baby Fawcett, child of Raymond and Melissa (McAuliffe) Fawcett, of Benton, was stillborn on Thursday, March 2, 2017, at Mercy Medical Center-Dubuque.

Graveside services will be 11:00 a.m. Monday, March 6, 2017, at the United Methodist Church Cemetery in Benton. Casey Funeral Home & Cremation Services of Benton is in charge of arrangements.

Surviving are the baby’s parents; two brothers, Jake and Jax; two sisters, Kailey and Kaycie; all at home; the baby’s maternal grandparents, John and Judy McAuliffe; the baby’s paternal grandparents, John and Phyllis Fawcett, all of Benton; and a number of aunts, uncles and cousins.

The baby was preceded in death by two brothers, Jayson Joseph, on September 15, 2011, and Jayden Joseph, on August 8, 2012.

Obituary For Infant Carter Gray Weitzman

This is beautiful obituary for a baby because it includes touching details about the things that she enjoyed: cuddling mommy, swinging on the porch, and fuzzy blankets.

Infant Carter Gray Weitzman, 3 months, passed away Monday, May 28, 2018, at her home in Lucasville, OH, with her mommy by her side.

Baby Carter was born February 8, 2018, in Huntington, WV, to Shanda Neff and James Weitzman of Lucasville, OH.

She liked cuddling mommy, swinging on the porch with Papa Ben, loved her milk and fuzzy blankets. “Her mommy loves her more than anyone, forever.”

In addition to her parents, she is survived by her sister, Cienna Grace Weitzman. She will be remembered by Mimi Lisa Neff, Papa Ben McPeek, Gigi Alisha Crisp, Grandma Alise Weitzman, Oma Amy Parker, Papa Buck Parker and great Nana Cheryl Toenjes; and a host of loving family and friends.

Carter was preceded in death by Papa Gary Neff; and Obie Michael Bishop.

Funeral service for Baby Carter will be at 7 p.m. Thursday, May 31, 2018, at Neal Funeral Home, 2409 Center Street, Catlettsburg, KY. Pastor Jim Webster will officiate.

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These sample obituary templates serve as a guide to help you get started writing an obituary for your deceased friend or loved one.  Obituaries may be written for death announcements in newspapers, or for a funeral program, prayer cards and memorial keepsakes.  The obituary documents the deceased person's life achievements and notifies the public of death.  It also gives important funeral or memorial service information. The goal of the obituary is to demonstrate respect and honor for those who have passed, while informing those who remain of his or her death. Listed below are several examples for obituary wording samples.  Below also shows the format for an obituary.  For more specific information about writing obituaries, the obituary format and other examples and obituary ideas, check out our articles " How to Write an Obituary,   Newspaper Obituaries and Death Announcements and obituary templates or Obituary Examples .  You can also check out some of our sample obituary templates .

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Former Texas resident Howard M. Hall, 85, died Dec. 23, 2005, at his home in Houston, Texas.

At his request, no service will be held.

Mr. Hall was born May. 30, 1920, in Sacramento, Calif., to Salvatore and Elle Hall. Howard could accomplish anything he set his mind to do. At a very early age, he built a wagon to push his little brother around that was too little to walk. Mr. Hall also served in the United State Air Force, during World War II as a radio operator. He spent 14 months in the South Pacific.  In 1942, Mr. Hall came to Texas with his lovely wife, Sally.

He worked several years for Amtrak and for Exxon during the oil spill as their Communications Specialist. Mr. Hall spent more than 50 years in Texas. He and his wife, Sally, built their vacation home in Galveston, Texas and enjoyed lots of wonderful winters there together. He is survived by his wife of 28 years, Sally; daughter, Jean Hall. Condolences may be sent to P.O. Box 1425, Houston, TX 98382.

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Janet Snow, 44, died March 1, 2004, with her family by her side in Enumclaw, Wash.

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How to write an obituary

If you have been asked to write an obituary for a family member or close friend, this step-by-step guide explains how to write an obituary and the details you’ll need to include about your loved one.  

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a short news article, or notice, that announces the death of a loved one. It usually includes a brief overview of their life – think of it as a mini biography – and the details of their memorial or funeral service. Obituaries are traditionally found in local papers but an online obituary, particularly on social media platforms like Facebook, have become more popular. Obituaries are not a legal requirement but they can be a good way to share the news with lots of people.

What’s the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice will typically include key facts such as name, age, date of birth and date of death. In contrast, an obituary will have these facts plus more details about the person’s life and achievements.

How soon after the death should an obituary be published?

There is no set time but most people will try and publish the obituary within a week of their loved one’s death, especially if it’s going to include details about the funeral or memorial service. This applies for both print and digital obituaries.

Who writes an obituary?

An obituary is very personal and includes details about your loved one’s death and their life. For that reason they are usually written by a family member or close friend.

Does the funeral home help with the obituary?

Your chosen funeral home or Funeral Director should be able to offer you advice when it comes to writing the obituary for your loved one.

• Check if there is a word limit – some newspapers charge per word so it’s worth checking before you start writing. If you plan to publish the obituary on social media, such as Facebook, then word limit isn’t an issue. Read our guide to announcing a death on social media .
• Read other obituaries for inspiration – you can find helpful sample obituaries online.
• Write down the key facts – this is to give you a starting point and will help you think about what you want to include.
• Make it personal – the best obituaries will capture the personality of the person who has passed. To help inspire you, ask yourself questions like: How would you describe their personality? What are some of your favourite memories of them? What were they most proud of? What were their hobbies and interests? How would they want to be remembered?
• Take your time – an obituary represents your loved one so try not to rush it, this is when you’re most likely to make mistakes.
• Be respectful – use your own judgement about what sounds right, but remember it doesn’t have to be traditional and serious. You can use humour or a light-hearted tone if you feel it’s more fitting to your loved one’s life and memory.
• Proofread – online obituaries are easy to amend but if you’ve chosen to print your loved one’s obituary in a newspaper then mistakes can’t be corrected. So make sure the details are correct and the names are spelled right.

What to include in an obituary

When it comes to what to include, a traditional obituary will have the following:

• Announcement of death – the deceased’s full name, age, location of death, date of death, cause of death (optional).
• Details about their life – date and place of birth, hometown, qualification and degrees earned, hobbies and interests, military service and rank, place of worship, organisations they were a part of, and personal characteristics.
• Surviving family members – you can list close family members including, a spouse, children and their spouses, grandchildren, great grandchildren, parents, and siblings.
• Charity donation – some bereaved families ask people to make donations to a charity, usually one close to their heart, instead of sending flowers.
• Choose a photo of your loved one – this will sit alongside the obituary.
• Details about the funeral or memorial service – such as when and where the service will be held. Please note, only include this information if you want to make it public.

How do you list family members in an obituary?

It’s common to mention the close family members who have survived the deceased: John is survived by his wife Karen, 56, and his daughter Kate, 21. Some people will also include immediate family members who predeceased their loved one: Sarah is preceded in death by her older brother James, and her beloved niece, Lisa.

If you’d like more guidance on what to write in an obituary, please contact your local funeral director for further advice.

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Obituary Writing

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An obituary typically contains a report of a recent death. It usually includes certain information about the deceased person and the upcoming memorial program . Typically, obituaries are included in a newspaper, and are basically written with the intention of informing the general public of the death of a significant person, or any resident of a certain area, along with a brief biography of such person. The media often prepares a prewritten obituary for significant and influential persons of a specific area even before their death.

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What Is Obituary Writing?

Free writing of obituary, in the simplest sense, is the act of writing an obituary. It is typically known as a commemoration of someone’s death.

An obituary can be written by a family member, a close relative, or a friend, often assisted by the funeral home, which they usually send to the media (usually newspapers or publications) for printing. Of course, such process can be applicable to anyone.

However, for most public figures, the media staff conducts a research of their lives and may write the obituary beforehand, which will be printed upon death.

Importance of an Obituary

An obituary (or writing one) can be painful to some, but because it contains a detailed but brief presentation of a deceased individual’s life, it can also be a way of remembering how such individual has lived over the short course of his/her life.

It is also one way for family members and friends to inform the public how the deceased individual shall be missed and remembered, and how his/her death pains them. With this, the general public will be able to sympathize with the family’s loss, at the very least.

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How to Write an Obituary

Writing an obituary, to most people, is a meaningful process.

It is the writer’s responsibility to write an obituary that will be able to reach the family members and friends of the deceased person, and of course the readers. Here are some tips on how to write an obituary.

• Read other obituaries. Doing such will provide you the idea on how to write an obituary for a friend or a relative. This will also provide you an idea on what to include in your composition.
• Write the announcement of death. This is to state the fact that the deceased has passed away, including the date and time of death.
• List down the information about the deceased. This includes a brief description and biography of the deceased, and the significant experiences in his/her life.
• Provide information on the funeral and memorial services.  This includes information regarding the funeral notice and memorial services, along with the burial, the address, date and time, and other necessary information.
• Include a list of surviving relatives. This is to provide a list of the people who means a lot to the deceased.
• Include additional information. Such information may vary depending on the writer’s discretion.
• Proofread. Before printing the obituary, recheck the information you provided for errors and accuracy. You can also ask someone else to proofread your work for you.

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Bestselling novelist Paul Auster, author of 'The New York Trilogy,' dies at 77

"You think it will never happen to you," Paul Auster wrote about aging and mortality in his 2012 book Winter Journal. He's pictured above in New York in April 2007. Nicholas Roberts/AFP via Getty Images hide caption

"You think it will never happen to you," Paul Auster wrote about aging and mortality in his 2012 book Winter Journal. He's pictured above in New York in April 2007.

Best-selling author Paul Auster, whose novels addressed existential questions of identity, language, and literature and created mysteries that raised more questions than they answered, has died. He was 77.

His death was confirmed by friend Jacki Lyden on behalf of Auster's family.

A leading figure in his generation of postmodern American writers, Auster wrote more than 20 novels, including The New York Trilogy , which included his 1985 breakthrough book, City of Glass, and his ambitious 2017 novel 4 3 2 1, which ran close to 1,000 pages.

"I think he was a really exciting and compelling voice of his generation," says Alys Moody, a professor who teaches postwar American literature. "Auster will be remembered for being one of the leading figures in a post-modern tradition that's reimagining how central language is, and how central writing is, and how central above all storytelling is."

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Auster was born in 1947 in Newark, N.J., to Jewish middle-class parents of Austrian descent. After he graduated from Columbia University with undergraduate and Master's degrees, he moved to Paris. There, he supported himself by translating French literature. Auster returned to the United States in 1974, part of a disillusioned generation. In a private 1992 interview with me, he said his novel Leviathan was about a character much like himself: "Someone filled with a kind of idealistic hope about what could be done about the future of the country and the world, who saw all these dreams bit by bit be dismantled by subsequent political events."

In his 20s, Auster published his own essays, poems, and translations. A strange event in 1980 led to his first novel.

"I was living alone in Brooklyn. And I did receive a telephone call," he recalled. "And the person on the other end asked if he had reached the Pinkerton Agency. And, of course, I said no and hung up. But after the second or third time, I said, well, what if I said Yes? And that was the genesis of the novel."

The story of that novel, City of Glass, is set in motion when the main character, a detective fiction writer named Quinn, gets a late night phone call:

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"I would like to speak to Mr. Paul Auster." "There's no one here by that name." "Paul Auster. Of the Auster Detective Agency." "I'm sorry," said Quinn. "You must have the wrong number." "This is a matter of utmost urgency," said the voice. "There's nothing I can do for you," said Quinn. "There is no Paul Auster here." "You don't understand," said the voice. "Time is running out."

The writer in the novel takes on the identity of the detective, who sets out to solve the mystery of "what is reality?" He was sometimes criticized for the bizarre coincidences in his work, but the events of his life, he said, outstripped the implausibility in his fiction.

"When I was about 13 or 14 years old and, I was off at a summer camp, and we got caught in a storm. And a boy standing next to me was killed by a bolt of lightning. Dropped dead. Struck down by the sky. I think maybe that informs my work more than any book I have ever read," he explained.

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Auster also wrote and co-directed a handful of independent films. He was never at a loss for words. In 2017, he published an 880-page novel called 4 3 2 1 that told the story of one main character in four different versions, in alternating chapters. When he finished that book, he decided to take a break from fiction, so he began writing a 780-page biography of 19 th century author Stephen Crane.

"I have tried in my books to turn myself inside out as much as possible," he said. "And not to hide behind style, tricks — whatever you might call it."

Auster, whose literary influences included Franz Kafka and Samuel Beckett, will be remembered for the purity of his language, and the seriousness of his intent.

Correction May 1, 2024

An earlier version of this story indicated that Paul Auster was born in 1937. He was born in 1947.

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